Somehow, despite my many and manifold failings, I'm currently in a wonderful ethically non-monogamous non-exclusive relationship. Should you find this unacceptable, and/or feel that you'd merely be taking a number at a meat counter/joining a lengthy queue, or both, then I can be of no interest to you. If your personal code remains unviolated, then Hello.
I'm a mainly civilised liberal artsy-bookish writer somehow lodged in new media thing, interested in what you have to say and how you feel, looking for an ally and partner to steal horses with. That's a metaphor. Obviously, horse crime would be awful. I can keep up one end of a conversation, but two seems excessive. House-trained, and I leave both the seat and the lid down. I could say that you smoking wouldn't be a long term problem but that would, deep down, be a fib. I offer both Tea & Sympathy and, if your co-workers or family provoke you sufficiently, Coffee & Frowning. Let's get out and do stuff, and occasionally just stay home and hide.
In retrospect, this will all seem like a Plan.
I don't have "A Type". Who you are is vastly more important that what you do or where you're from. Rational self-confidence beats attitude, and character beats looks. I admire people who are good at being themselves and aspire to enjoy their lives without being self-centred. I value kindness very highly. You don't have to be bookish or artsy or expensively educated, but it'll help a lot if you're curious: interested people always seem to be more interesting.
I brush up well, am slightly handy, and lightly musical. I'm at least a bit interested in nearly everything. I don't look that much like my photos in real life, but they are at least all actually of me. I am roughly human-shaped, and theoretically likable.
I'm looking for someone fun and smart and sane and sexy with whom to share coffee, books, movies, plays, concerts, bed and my life. Have you any opinions or curiosities about the above? Then apply within...