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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Dec 16, 2014
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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It's a free world. There are no promises that can't be broken for the sake of love, whether old or new...
-look up Edgar Allan Poe's, Eleonora.

I am a man that appreciates beauty, but I desire more than just that.

I have no expectations for the path any given situation might take...

...though, I do have desires I pursue...

I'm easy going, passionate about enjoying life, but I'm not a simple man...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I take a pride in everything I do...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living shamelessly...I make mistakes, I fail, but I will not waste my time in regret. I have a heart that is quick to repent, when I see that I have gone wrong. I don't feel like a fool for being wrong, I proudly claim my mistakes and turn from them moving forward.

The greatest epiphany of my life was that happiness is a choice.
I put my entire effort and heart into what ever I do, and I choose to be focused and thrilled to be where ever I am. This holds significance to me, because at one time I was completely locked down agoraphobic. They say one never fully recovers, but I know that's not true. I am a completely free man, the world is open to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My rugged good looks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I find science very fascinating and that is what I tend to read about. I am also really into meditation, mind and body health. Part of my recovery from the agoraphobia had to do with the combination of meditation, self hypnosis, and straight up exposure therapy.

My sense of humor learns toward the dry and very dark side I love dark poetry. I can tell you things about Edgar Allen Poe, that 99% of people don't know, and reveal a depth he shared, that most would never consider.

I am all about the quirky thoughtful whimsical, and the dark. I am always searching and hoping to find more.
The Big Lebowski, Being John Malcovich, The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Universe, ...

My love for old Kung Foo movies has giving me an Inner Sensei, through which ( in a whimsically nature) I encourage myself to always see the world though the eyes of the martial arts and be in the flow of the chi, approaching with the right technique and form. My favorite approach is Drunken Monkey.

Being a shameless cowboy from Texas I love old westerns, the light hearted, big action, satirictically humored kind, My inner cowboy likes to see life as a dance.. I could expound for hours on the nuances of how if you treat (your inserted noun, verb) like a dance partner, there is nothing you can't relax and enjoy. My favorite dance approach is also Drunken Monkey.

I am a major music lover. I am always searching for new treasures. A recent one I was turned onto was Tedeschi Trucks Band, and their song Midnight In Harlem, has fast become my favorite.
I have studied and respect the guitar techniques of:
Robert Johnson, Leadbelly, Eric Claptin, Tommy Emanuel, Steve Miller, Merle Travis, Chet Atkins...
Some of my other favorite artist include:
Jeff Buckley, Tim Buckley, Leonard Cohen, Thievery Corporation,...

I love to cook. I even try be very creative. I once made some scrambled eggs. I used bacon grease, put cayenne pepper, gruyere cheese, nutmeg, coconut sugar, milk, pepper, and a few other things. I don't know where I went wrong, but I can't say they turned out too well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*Adventure is what I live for, every breath is an opportunity to practice.
*Anticipation, is the beauty of being alive. I can't wait to wake everyday
*Boundless freedom, Is my innate indulgence, I'm in love with life
*Exploration, any where the winds of this life may blow me along on this course, in the pursuit of my desires is an exhilarating opportunity, for self discovery.
*Hope, fuels my fire and jovial resilience.
*Laughter, gratitude always follows.
*Love , though shared love eludes me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How thrilling it will be when, where, and how I will make the connection and find the love and intimacy that I desire, and hope for.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
very charming...where ever, whatever I'm doing. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My Rozlyn is a little neighborhood terror...
I love my little terror...


I hold what some have referred to as "high skills" in the art of dirty talk...

Ok, I'll give ya a real one... I love bubble baths, (in a big tub), where else could they be? Oh alright... and I, (by myself) try to enjoy them at least once a month.
You should message me if
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You are looking for the love of your life.
I'm looking to find the love of my life. Let's see how we get along, see if we can share a bit of the path or maybe a life time of it.

You have a warm heart, and are mature, confident, not easily discouraged,
You are brave enough to be open to, and not retreat or hide from intimacy,
You try to always find a jovial humor in everything.

!!! You are independent, fully self actualized, ASSERTIVE and will STAND UP for what you want and deserve.
!!! You are healthy minded, not someone who let's people, control, coddle and treat them like a fool, for the sake of "being the helpful more mature one". I WILL NOT waste time with someone who denies them self what they want because they don't believe they deserve it.

I'm very introspective, creative & artistic. I am a man with a strong personality and sensitive heart.

The woman that I will fall in love with is strong willed, intelligent, warm, kind, open and honest enough to tell me how they feel, or the truth!!! when the eggs I make really suck.;-)