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51 F Birmingham, AL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:27pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Is chivalry dead? Are there any truly honest, loving, kind, humble and caring gentlemen out there?

Who am I? I am a beautiful woman but I'm more than my beauty. I am curvy but I am more than a number on a scale. I am an intelligent woman. I am a passionate woman. I am a beautiful woman of substance. I have a BS degree in accounting but no longer work as one. I was unhappy as an accountant and had always wanted to be a nurse, so I am now in nursing school trying to fulfill that dream. I enjoy having fun and laughing. I love to travel. To date, my favorite places on earth are Paris, France and New York City but there are so many other places I would like to visit in and out of the US. I enjoy reading. I read fiction and non-fiction, young adult to adult, anything from mindless reading to serious reading. I enjoy some girlie things like sewing, quilting and other crafty things. I also enjoy the arts (plays, opera, concerts, museums, etc.), cooking, antiquing, short weekend trips, camping, canoeing, the beach anytime but prefer off-season and the mountains anytime. I go to a gym to work out 5 days a week. A couple of days a week, I go back later in the day to do a second round of cardio. I think I would like to learn how to kayak and to play golf. I prefer cooler weather. I try hard to stay abreast of current events and the news but that is sometimes hard while in nursing school because I'm always studying. I strive to live my life with the same characteristics that I mention below in “What do I want in a partner…”

What do I want in a partner you ask? He must be a Christian. His definition of love should not only come from 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, he must strive to live it as well. He must have love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control, common courtesy and honesty. Don’t get me wrong, I know no one is perfect and we are all a work-in-progress but my man should strive for the above characteristics. A good sense of humor and laughter are essential. He must like to travel and having at least a small adventurous side as well as a spontaneous side. It would be awesome if he enjoys cuddling. Must be a strong kisser and hugger. Having a weak kiss or hug is like having a weak, noodle-like handshake. Further, I've learned over the years that looks can fade but what's on the inside does not. If the inside is handsome, then the outside will follow, at least in my eyes.

Other thoughts: I believe to be a happy, well-rounded, couple each should enjoy their own hobbies as well as share some interests. Communication is the main key to a successful relationship. Respect is a must, not just for each other but also for the thoughts and feelings of each. Patience doesn’t hurt either. As to children, I have 3 grown children. I would prefer that whomever I get involved with either has grown children like me or no children, BUT, if the right man comes along and he has one or more teenagers, I'm not going to let that be a deal breaker. However, he must not want more children because I cannot have anymore.
What I’m doing with my life
I am going back to college to get a nursing degree with the possibility of continuing on to get a Masters degree to be able to teach at the college level at some point. As an accountant, working for small family owned companies, I was unfulfilled. As a nurse, I am excited about being able to help people.
I’m really good at
I am good at cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
Quite a few people tell me my skin is beautiful. Does that count?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Although I love to read, most of my reading these days are nursing books. When I do have the opportunity to read for fun, I choose light, mindless novels to read. I have a few favorite authors that I enjoy.

I like a lot of different movies but I draw the line at horror movies. I love old black and white movies too.

As to TV, I like The Big Bang Theory (it's about the only comedy I watch), Continuum, Cedar Cove, House of Cards, Game of Thrones and others but I really don't get to watch much during each school semester.

I like most genres of music. I grew up in the 70's so I really enjoy some of the classic rock that came out of that era. But I also like 20's-60's music too. I'm not fond of rap music and usually would say I don't like it but I will admit to rarely liking a rap song or two. Well, ok, so I like music. It's really a song by song choice as to whether I like it or not.

I love food! I enjoy cooking, especially if I have someone special to cook with. My biggest issue, I hate cleaning up after. I consider it a necessary evil. I love French, Italian, Chinese, get the drift.
The six things I could never do without
Air conditioner
Air Conditioner
Oh, and did I mention an air-conditioner? (or a cooler climate than the south.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
School...getting through the rest of it unscathed and what life will be like after I graduate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mostly studying, while I'm in school.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A lady can't give away her secrets too early nor publicly!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 51–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
After reading my WHOLE profile, you would like to get to know me better.

I DO NOT answer:
1-2 word messages. If you want to get to know me, write a decent, genuine message.
Guys younger than my oldest child who is 35. I prefer men my age or older.
Anyone that responds with "ask me anything and I will tell you" after I've already asked you to tell me more about yourself.
Spammers. I've become a pro at knowing who you are. If I'm positive your a spammer, I will block you.