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CharmingSpyGuy

57 San Diego, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 31–56
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Think a more mature, relaxed Christian Grey .. minus the helicopter.

I have a busy, good life, so I'm selective with whom I share my time. I'm attracted to sexy, feminine, flirtatious, thoughtful, secure women who enjoy life. I don't like crazy drama and don't want to date someone with a lot of unresolved issues.

"Men are from Earth. Women are from Earth. Deal with it." George Carlin

I have many interests - travel, music, books, movies, theatre, and good conversation are a few.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a basketball shooting coach and dad to a daughter (21) and two boys (16 & 19) - a great job and great kids. (no, I'm not really a spy .. shocking, I know)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Like most people, I’m good at some things and not so good at others. I write well, speak well, and I pay attention. I'm a good story teller. I'm good at shaving really close. I'm VERY GOOD at shooting a basketball .. ¡Es Mágico! I used to be exceptionally good at backgammon, golf, & calculus but haven’t done those in a while.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would depend on who is doing the noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have lots of favorites. I like rich vibrant color. Some of my favorite authors are John Irving, Jean Auel, Tom Robbins, Carl Sagan, Pearl Buck, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, John Steinbeck, and Kurt Vonnegut. I like to read biographies. Some movie makers and playwrights I like are David Mamet, Woody Allen, Sam Shepard, Wim Wenders, Edward Albee (who tried to seduce me once, but that was a long time ago, and I was too naive to realize it), Arthur Miller, Pedro Almodóvar. Favorite musicians/songwriters include Neil Young, Lou Reed, Chili Peppers, Leonard Cohen, Chris Botti, Maria Rita, Gipsy Kings, and many more .. and I'm an Apple guy (the company & the kind you eat) I like food. I like to savor things I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
living
loving
laughing
learning
loyalty
alliteration
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a thoughtful man but not a worrier or an overanalyzer. Thinking is important, but so are sensing and intuition.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Judge Alex reminds me of Herman Munster (pretty revealing, huh?)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're cool, interesting, and not uptight

.. and if you're a dominatrix, good luck with that, but I'm definitely not your guy