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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31–56
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:47am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a good man. I love my parents and my children.

Think a more mature, relaxed Christian Grey .. minus the helicopter.

I have a busy, good life, so I'm selective with whom I share my time. I'm attracted to sexy, feminine, flirtatious, thoughtful, secure women who enjoy life. I don't like crazy drama and don't want to date someone with a lot of unresolved issues.

"Men are from Earth. Women are from Earth. Deal with it." George Carlin

I have many interests - travel, music, books, movies, theatre, and good conversation are a few.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach people how to shoot a basketball. No, I'm not really a spy .. shocking, I know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Like most people, I’m good at some things and not so good at others. I write well, speak well, and I pay attention. I'm a good story teller. I'm good at shaving really close. I'm VERY GOOD at shooting a basketball .. ¡Es Mágico! I used to be exceptionally good at backgammon, golf, & calculus but haven’t done those in a while.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would depend on who is doing the noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have lots of favorites. I like rich vibrant color. Some of my favorite authors are John Irving, Jean Auel, Tom Robbins, Carl Sagan, Pearl Buck, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, John Steinbeck, and Kurt Vonnegut. I like to read biographies. Some movie makers and playwrights I like are David Mamet, Woody Allen, Sam Shepard, Wim Wenders, Edward Albee (who tried to seduce me once, but that was a long time ago, and I was too naive to realize it), Arthur Miller, Pedro Almodóvar. Favorite musicians/songwriters include Neil Young, Lou Reed, Chili Peppers, Leonard Cohen, Chris Botti, Maria Rita, Gipsy Kings, and many more .. and I'm an Apple guy (the computer company & the kind you eat) I like food. I like to savor things I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a thoughtful man but not a worrier or an overanalyzer. Thinking is important, but so are sensing and intuition.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Judge Alex reminds me of Herman Munster (pretty revealing, huh?)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're cool, interesting, and not uptight

.. and if you're a dominatrix, good luck with that, but I'm definitely not your guy

.. and no, I'm not that guy either