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23 Lake Zurich, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 25
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working at a hotel, becoming a master of all trades from front desk to housekeeping, and it's a blast. I hold a BA in Japanese and East Asian Studies. I'm trying to figure out what graduate school. I'm cultivating plenty of hobbies. Need soap? I make soap. Yogurt? Kombucha? Sauerkraut? Kefir? Same story. Miso is the next endeavor. (And now I can buy koji locally, so it's going to happen)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making odd noises
Completely derailing conversations, I'm not a very linear thinker.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Generally speaking, people notice I'm not a crocodile pretty early on. Honestly, that might be their first and last mistake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(There's a lot of the things, I enjoy things. This is your TL;DR warning)
In no particular order here's what I tried to make a balanced scope of the things that resonate with me. I totally enjoy talking about everything on here. A lot. If you want to start a chat, it's pretty likely I'll dork out on you before you can blink twice.

Books: Kokoro, Journey to the West, The Story of the Stone, The Plum in the Golden Vase, Lolita, he Windup Bird Chronicle, and Galapagos.

Movies: Y Tu Mama Tambien, Going by the Book, Mother, Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, Departures, Volver, and Cast Away on the Moon.

Music: The Mountain Goats, Lana del Rey, No Doubt, Amanda Palmer, The XX, XXYYXX, Empire of the Sun, MGMT, Passion Pit, The Rolling Stones, Laura Marling, L'arc en Ciel, Remiororen, AKB48, Hyuna, G Dragon, Wagner, Puccini, Mozart, Beethoven, and Rachmaninoff.

Shows: Hannibal, Orange is the New Black, Mad Men, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Squidbillies, American Dad, The Heart She Holler, and 1 Liter of Tears.

Food: Chinese, Korean, Mexican, and Italian cuisines are my top 4. I'm a flexible eater with a taste for adventure. Like bugs and offal adventure, not "There's a new Thai place down the road" adventure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Still and running waters
Summer as a well-earned respite
The quiet of the early morning hours
The delightful din of evening
A furiously beating heart
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to become the person I want to be and how I am and am not that person already. Also about some infinite number of observations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Replenishing my vital energies. I can be enjoying a Chilean cabernet sauvignon(I'm not being specific to be a snob, I'm being specific because that's a specific kind of wine I drink regularly) in the bath with a book and some music.
You should message me if
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You know what I mean if I say the moon is beautiful tonight

You've read a book/heard an album/seen a painting/know of an animal/ate something you think I'll enjoy.

The fancy strikes you.

You think I am willing to put down my sword and shield to enjoy your company by the hearth.

That you think I would be good for you.