I'm the type of guy who is very optimistic...if you ask me if the glass is half empty or half full...the correct answer is empty and it was an enjoyable drink, time for another!
I'm pretty open minded about a lot of things, I am not a big fan of taking a side unless I truly believe in the cause. I find that by sitting on the fence and listening to both sides of a argument you can learn a lot.
To be very honest, I am on the shy side. Very rarely will I ever message first. Generally because I feel people always have someone to talk to.