I have been married once, but have no children. I love kids, but was never with the right person to have them. I am not opposed to dating someone who has children, but I don't plan to have any of my own at this stage in life. The heart still wants to, but the head says no.
I'm on here for a couple of reasons. I would like to make some friends and/or acquaintances just to spend time with to improve quality of life. I would also love to meet that special someone, but I by no means want to force it. I am one who believes a healthy relationship involves both time together and time apart. I'm not a "stage 5 clinger" (Not sure where I heard that) and don't want someone overly needy either.
I should admit that I am a bit dating phobic. I'm not afraid of a relationship or commitment. I've just never been good at knowing what people are thinking. I don't like hurting people's feelings and I don't care for getting my feelings hurt. Dating involves a lot of trial and error where someone often gets their feelings hurt hence my aversion to it.
I just finished up a new exercise room. I'm honestly in about the worst shape I've ever been at 5'11" and 235lbs. I started playing tennis, but I'm having a rough time getting my friends to play consistently. I would love to find someone close to Greenfield who would like to play some tennis at the park. Although I am currently out of shape, I am serious about getting into shape. If you are not of the same mind set, then I don't think dating would be a good idea. Two people should bring out the best in each other so I believe it is important they have similar objectives.
Too much me already... How about you?
I'm open to a fairly broad age range, but I would prefer someone who is mature without acting like an old fart. In other words, I'm not Daddy looking for an 20 year old, but I'm not dead yet either.
Hmmm.... Ok. That was still about me I guess. It can't be helped. I don't know you yet!!!
You are kind, sensitive, intelligent, and energetic. You are honest and open. Sometimes so much that it hurts. You love to laugh and can understand dry humor and sarcasm. You aren't afraid of a raunchy joke, yet you are still a class act. You believe two people can share a special kind of love with each other and that there is no reason third parties need visit the bedroom. I would say you are breathtakingly beautiful, but I'm pretty sure that's pushing my luck. ;)