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43 / M / straight / Single

Dearborn Heights, Michigan

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am funny, loyal, and not bald. LOL.

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My Self-Summary

I am here for real, to meet happy, funny, adventurous people. Just a regular guy no "major" issues, looking for a regular gal who is looking for an easy going guy who will treat her right (she's thinking, ya right, heard that before, we'll see). I love to cook (especially for others) and enjoy genuine, sincere, fun & funny people. I have a quick wit and a sense of humor that tends to be a bit on the sarcastic side. My music preference is varied, from rock to jazz, blues to country, all depends on my mood and who I am with(she says, what the hell does that mean, he says, well ask, ha). I look forward to chatting with you and see where it goes.

What I’m doing with my life

I have a great career that affords me the oportunity to travel and meet new people and I find that very exciting. It also offers great growth potential and long range stability. I am commited to this area because this is where my children are and I believe they are the most important reason there could possibly be to maintain my professional career in this area. So I am hoping to find someone who is happy with where they are in life and where they are going. Tired of women who have been burned in the past and have not let go of their fears and cannot let go. Too old to play those games. We are adults, either we are ready to jump in the pool or not.

I’m really good at

problem solving and working with people. Finding win/win solutions so all parties can be satisfied at the end of the day. Also understanding when things are tough and listening and being there to support, I know that sounds sappy, but maybe some day I may need your shoulder too. LOL

Aside from that, I am a very good cook, spent 20 years working in restaurants and was fortunate to have a Mom who knows her way around a kitchen. I can teach anyone how to ski, both snow and water. Very talented at freightening first time riders in my car and successful at being able to totally veg out on a weekend day and sleep in.

The first things people usually notice about me

is my smile and out going personality followed by my sense of humor. Although the humor thing is known to cross the line from time to time and come out at the wrong time, but hey, we are human after all. Just tell me to shut up.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

would be very difficult to answer because I like a diverse mix of all. However, I am a total foodie and into a ton of different music, so I am easily humored, but just not easy (ya right she says, he's a guy, they are all easy, LOL).

The six things I could never do without

good food, coffee, sleep, tv, my car, my kids. That was easy. Although there are so many other things I can think of, it just would drain my simple little mind to try and prioritize them.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my children, food, work and what the future holds for me and the kids, can't wait to see. On second thought, maybe I CAN wait.

On a typical Friday night I am

home and hoping to change that. Well not really that bad, but sometimes seems that way. LOL

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is that I am home on Friday nights. LOL. Let's change that. Oh wait, I am desperately reliant on spell check, so please ignore any spelling errors I have commited. Just never found the spell check button on here. AARGH.

You should message me if

You are tired of the creepy guys on here stalking you and all the other women, I know I am tired of them.

You are looking for a straight forward, down to earth, decent guy that is fun and out going.

You are looking for someone who will be there for you and genuinly care for how you are feeling and always treat you like a lady (well still with a bad boy side when appropriate).

You understand the frustration of trying to write 1,000 words, not characters, on here just to get to the elusive 90% profile complete status. LOL

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