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Honest, Loyal, and Romantic

My self-summary Propose an edit

I'm an honest and open person. I am laid back and relaxed. I can be romantic but not go past the point of sweet and become sappy. I am still a man after all, not a metrosexual. Aside from mmorpg's I enjoy nature and doing things outdoors, as well as cooking of course. I love to cook for a woman, when I have one in my life. I'm loyal to a fault and was brought up to respect women and treat them the way they should be treated. Which can catch them off guard since it seems so many men tend to have forgotten how.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Right now I'm working on opening my own business. Aside from that I'm enjoying life, we're all here for such a brief time we've got to do the things we enjoy.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Cooking, I don't have much of an ego except in two areas. When it comes to cooking I tend to be a perfectionist, I will spend hours and hours trying to perfect something. When it comes to cooking for a woman it's even worse. I go all out to make sure whatever I'm cooking for her is the best it can be.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

The first thing most people notice is my size. Not that I'm fat, I look more like a linebacker or defensive end if you're familiar with football terminology. Most people refer to me either by my nickname or "big guy" or something along those lines. I'm not agressive or ill tempered so it's not as though I act big and bad. I'm just a strong guy lol. If anything I'm more of a teddy bear than anything.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

My favorite book is war and peace. My favorite movie would probably be Gandhi, and I like all music. When it comes to food, my tastes are far too broad to list here. The easiest way to put it is my favorite is what my girls favorite is since I'd be cooking what she likes.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Air, Water, lol ok seriously. I'd probably say first and foremost my family, because they have made me who I am, and without them the world would be a really lonely place. Second would be my friends, they make life enjoyable. Thirdly would be my pets, because they are absolutely adoreable, I know it sounds gay. Next I'd say food, not because I like eating so much but because cooking is my pasion, and as a painter needs a canvas to make his or her masterpiece, I need food to make mine. Video games would fit in here too because it's a nice escape from reality, and helps to relax me. And then nature, I can't live without nature. There are so many things in life that are inspireing it's had to list them all here though.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Finding that one woman I'm meant to be with. How I could find her. I know maybe it sounds like despiration, but I'm really not. I just have the outlook that life is to short to spend it alone.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

It would depend on what's going on. I could be playing texas holdem with the guys, or maybe some video games, or getting things ready for tailgating the next day, or maybe having a bbq with friends.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I'm not a huge fan of this question. Not really sure how to answer it. I'm pretty much an open book so any question a woman could have for me, I'd be more than willing to answer it.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You should message me if an honest and open guy who is also geniune and sincere sounds appealing. If you add in loyalty, a sense of humor, and romance, why not give me a chance?

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Chef_Ben: 328 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn't matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$50,000-$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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