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43 Pittsburgh, PA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:30pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay)
My self-summary
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University professor. Cerebral but grounded. Fancy myself entertaining, but that's for others to judge. Leftist politically. I appreciate literature, occasional cigars, classical music, and World War I. Would live in Paris circa 1880 if such a thing could be arranged. Since it cannot, I read as many 19th century novels as possible to try and reconcile myself to the cruel lot destiny has dealt me.

I think a worthy life turns on creativity, curiosity, and compassion. I also like trees, Kant, Post-Impressionism, The Clash, antique books, Charles Baudelaire, and seriousness of purpose. I detest Andy Warhol, libertarians, lemon meringue pie, late Heidegger, and smallness of soul. I try to be a vegetarian, with mixed results. I also try to be both agnostic and generous, and in these areas think that I consistently succeed. I believe that "I, Claudius," "Upstairs, Downstairs," and "Arrested Development" were among the finest things ever put on television (though I no longer own one). I additionally believe that good Roquefort is the king of cheeses.

This is my creed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
It is frequently more a question of what my life is doing with me... That said, I guess I'll add that I spend a lot of my time with reading, writing, taking meditative walks around the city, & doing what modest bit I can to make the world a little better for folks (volunteering).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mixing frivolous enjoyment with the above-mentioned seriousness of purpose. A tough balancing act to pull off, but I think I do it well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many books that this is a silly question. My favorite poets are Baudelaire, Rilke, and Yeats. My favorite novelists are Conrad, Melville, and Flaubert. Also, I have a love of history, so I'm generally reading that... And for complicated reasons that not need detain us, I also read Goodbye to All That by Robert Graves once a year... Long story.
So many movies that this is an equally silly question. I like everything from "Big Trouble in Little China" to Fritz Lang.
Music? Mostly classical, though somewhere along the line I seem to have developed an embarrassing affection for 80s music. Odd, considering how little I cared for the 80s when they were going on around me. I also really like jazz, Ska, and British punk.
Food? French, although it's not exactly long on vegetarian fare.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The fingers on my right hand...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The destiny of man. Not a joke. I actually do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Plotting the overthrow of the republic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I find this entire line of questioning impertinent.
Really, have these people no sense of discretion?
You should message me if
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You have difficulty accepting that "message" is a verb, feel perplexed to see it used that way, and want to commiserate with me about this development. Also, even if you happily concur that "message" is a verb, you should contact me anyway if you are an open, bright, committed person, who believes in living fully and earnestly. These traits will trump most anything.