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46 / M / Straight / Single

Fullerton, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I have been fortunate to experience that rare and elusive true "Chemistry"

Chemisty may be difficult to describe, but it's easy to recognize.
Chemisty is invisible to the eye, but perceptible to an observer.
Chemistry can never fill a container, but it can certainly fill a room.
True Chemistry is beyond this material world, but not beyond our reach.

I'm a real good guy. I'm not perfect, but regarded as much better than average. I'm uncommon, humorous, respectful, loyal, trust-worthy, dependable, considerate, sacrificing, passionate when appropriate, intelligent, driven, in good health (all original - no relacement parts yet), drug free, financially secure, and easy going every chance I get.

I look forward to finding that partner with whom to share and propel life. I'm looking to validate my belief that treating a woman with respect, consideration, appreciation, and honor is a winning formula.

I believe there is no sense luring you in under false pretense or unrealistic expectations. Looks are relevant, chemistry is important, and stimulation is critical. I'd like to discover my best friend to share our lives.

My date should be fun-loving, interesting, reasonably drama-free (and drug -free), easy going, accepting of others, and ... stimulating.

For some reason, I am struck by a woman that looks cute in a hat, makes a statement with boots or shoes, or demonstrates confidence with the clothing inbetween.

Help me to see why you and I may become a long term "us".

I cherish family and friends. My humor is often dry and cerebral exercise is constant.

I've tried a traditional profile – i.e. similar to above. It hasn’t worked for me. Some say I need to be more bold in order to stand out. Well, consider this -
You'll be fortunate to be my partner (as I should feel same about you). My mind / intellect are fast-paced. You may not appreciate the depth of my sincerity, loyalty or respect. My constant cerebral humor is often dry. Our relationship will not go far without respect, appreciation, honor, trust, and chemistry.

I know what it takes to ignite magic and how it feels when someone is touching your soul. I know what it's like to look in your partner's eyes and have the rest of the world just melt away. I believe in second chances and I'm out to make the most of mine. No reason to settle for less than AMAZING.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm making the most of today and building for a better tomorrow while looking for someone to share the entertainments and pleasures of life.
I’m really good at
... get to know me and determine for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Condensed Self Summary and I spend a lot of time thinking about -

As I undersand it, a woman wants a respectful intelligent (smart and witty) guy that can make her laugh (humorous and entertaining). This fellow should be financially secure, attractive (that is in the eye of the beholder), ground shaking with regards to "intimacy", and confident, but not arrogant. Considerate of others and charming would be "a plus".

These are all the characteristics and traits that countless people use to describe me. (ok, well the "intimacy" thing; that is not "countless") So question is "Why am I single?" Well, if you have an opinion or would like to help me figure out that answer, please let me know. Consider that if we fail to determine the answer, we may live a fabulous and happy life forever after.

Good Luck on your own search.
The six things I could never do without
(.. "never do without" ... for too long ... in no particular order)

My Sons (2) - (They are most often with their mom.)

The excitement of potential

Trust, Love, Honor, Honesty, Respect, and Chemistry - those count as just one thing : )

The warmth of the sunshine

Humor

Stimulation - both mental and physical

Well, # 7 would be the staples of life - Food, Water, Shelter, Oxygen, Sex (prefer "great" will settle for "good"), Conversation, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... how will life play out for my sons, myself, and those that I care about.

Who will be my partner through this next chapter of my life?

What can I do tomorrow that will be fun?
On a typical Friday night I am
{Isn't this site about what I will or want to be doing rather than what I've "typically" been doing in the past?}

In the future, I'd like to be sharing the joys of each night with my partner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
{no idea}
Ask me anything.
I only answer honestly and to the best of my knowledge.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
... you don't blend in to your surroundings.
... you’re interested to feel special and appreciated, by someone that will add fun and laughter to your life.
... you realize that by having never met me, you wound up on this site; but talking to me for 10 to 45 minutes, may lead you to an amazing life (AND get you off this site).
... you believe that you can stimulate my mind and body; stimulate my soul as well and you'll likely be the grand prize winner!