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ChenStyleJohn

36 M San Isidro, Costa Rica

My Details

Last Online
Aug 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A Tai Chi nerd & meditation addict, I run a community clinic devoted to holistic medicine in Costa Rica. (Check out our community video here: http://igg.me/at/healingcenter/x/4600025 )
We reside on a Biodynamic farm, halfway up a mountain, and live in a house with more dogs than walls.

Mostly here as a game, alongside my partner. (Delia_Bitch)
Also, I've always wanted to create a personal "User Manual" for potential polyamorous partners to peruse. The question/answer section here will serve nicely. I try to be detailed & clear.
:o)
That said, if you happen to find yourself fitting me perfectly, feel free to get in touch. I'm not great about checking e-mail, so don't hold your breath... but perhaps a real friendship can evolve from this?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This life is devoted to meditative stillness, Chen sytle Taiji Quan, Chinese medicine, farming, teaching, tea, my family, and helping the community.
I really enjoy routine, and exploring the depth of a few things, rather than a little of everything. My teacher says I have "Butt-Power".

Also, there are educational videos that I enjoy putting together on YouTube. Check 'em out if you're interested:
http://www.youtube.com/user/ChenStyleJohn

Really enjoy teachings from people like: Adyashanti, Nisargadatta, Mooji, Jac O'Keefe, Ramana Maharshi, Pema, Eckhart, Karl, Dalai, Rumi, Li Po, "pure" Daoism / Buddhism, etc. etc. etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually, people say that they notice my happiness first, and tell me I look too young to be a doctor. Then they see my mismatched socks...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read (prefer audiobooks), and enjoy watching movies with Marina (my partner). Love music (especially jazz), and was a musician once upon a time. Love eating good food (preferably vegan), and do gourmet popcorn a few times a week while watching a movie.
...It's tough to be more specific than that, since I love so many things. Love is pretty easy for me.
:oD
Lately my favorite teachers include: Adyashanti, Nisargadatta, Jac O'Keefe, Mooji, and of course LaoZi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wakeful-Peace
Tea
QiGong
Jazz
A book to study
Fresh Air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
…the sound of one hand clapping?
I try to stay to “original mind”.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably on my back, in our bed, in the rainforest. I’m up well before dawn each day, so it’s nice to go to bed with the sun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no secrets, and will admit to anything.
Usually the most difficult piece of my life to describe, comes through my meditation. How do you describe to a stranger that the concept of "self" is only an empty fiction of thought? ...At least, without them deciding you're crazy??
:o)
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We happen to have incredibly similar interests.
I still may not respond, so please don’t write to me out of boredom or troll-dom. We do identify as "Polyamorous", so are open to expanding our relationship... if a perfect partner comes along.
Someone out there is bound to be just like me, so they might be fun to connect with.
:o)