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36 M San Isidro, Costa Rica

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A Tai Chi nerd & meditation addict, I run a community clinic devoted to holistic medicine in Costa Rica. (Check out our community video here: )
We reside on a Biodynamic farm, halfway up a mountain, and live in a house with more dogs than walls.

Mostly here as a game, alongside my partner. (Delia_Bitch)
Also, I've always wanted to create a personal "User Manual" for potential polyamorous partners to peruse. The question/answer section here will serve nicely. I try to be detailed & clear.
That said, if you happen to find yourself fitting me perfectly, feel free to get in touch. I'm not great about checking e-mail, so don't hold your breath... but perhaps a real friendship can evolve from this?
What I’m doing with my life
This life is devoted to meditative stillness, Chen sytle Taiji Quan, Chinese medicine, farming, teaching, tea, my family, and helping the community.
I really enjoy routine, and exploring the depth of a few things, rather than a little of everything. My teacher says I have "Butt-Power".

Also, there are educational videos that I enjoy putting together on YouTube. Check 'em out if you're interested:

Really enjoy teachings from people like: Adyashanti, Nisargadatta, Mooji, Jac O'Keefe, Ramana Maharshi, Pema, Eckhart, Karl, Dalai, Rumi, Li Po, "pure" Daoism / Buddhism, etc. etc. etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually, people say that they notice my happiness first, and tell me I look too young to be a doctor. Then they see my mismatched socks...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read (prefer audiobooks), and enjoy watching movies with Marina (my partner). Love music (especially jazz), and was a musician once upon a time. Love eating good food (preferably vegan), and do gourmet popcorn a few times a week while watching a movie.
...It's tough to be more specific than that, since I love so many things. Love is pretty easy for me.
Lately my favorite teachers include: Adyashanti, Nisargadatta, Jac O'Keefe, Mooji, and of course LaoZi.
The six things I could never do without
A book to study
Fresh Air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
…the sound of one hand clapping?
I try to stay to “original mind”.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably on my back, in our bed, in the rainforest. I’m up well before dawn each day, so it’s nice to go to bed with the sun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no secrets, and will admit to anything.
Usually the most difficult piece of my life to describe, comes through my meditation. How do you describe to a stranger that the concept of "self" is only an empty fiction of thought? ...At least, without them deciding you're crazy??
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
We happen to have incredibly similar interests.
I still may not respond, so please don’t write to me out of boredom or troll-dom. We do identify as "Polyamorous", so are open to expanding our relationship... if a perfect partner comes along.
Someone out there is bound to be just like me, so they might be fun to connect with.