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50 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am naturally creative, gregarious, and an enthusiastic conversationalist. I love to share what I know. I enjoy listening to your stories about what you have learned, loved, and experienced in this mysterious world.

I am looking to develop friendships with women after having a painfully difficult 12 year marital relationship. Friendships are, after all, what we need and deserve to create a healthy, vibrant life. Ultimately, I am seeking a devoted monogamous relationship, but it takes time to learn about each other. I am really good at focusing all my attention on the task at hand. Please forgive me if I don't respond immediately.

While i am entranced by the possibility of our conversation, writing it all out is no easy task for me. I will, to the best of my ability and in the time I have, respond to whatever threads we start until we meet and are able to cover some of this ground verbally (a method I am far more adept and more comfortable at using).
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an activist, an artist, an inventor. I bring things from the dream world, to this one. I am devoted to dreaming and creating with others. I am attempting to do the greatest magic trick ever achieved: transforming my self. I am doing this with meditation, service, prayer, and fellowship in 12 step recovery. If you are interested in getting one persons impression of recovery I will happily share my experience. Just ask.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-giving my all
-parallel parking
-paying attention - (listening, watching, intuiting...)
-spacing things out -because I just gave all my attention to the thing in front of me
-making jokes nobody seems to understand
-fine detail work
The first things people usually notice about me
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-my intensity
-my vocabulary
-I was told by my (daughter) I needed to include the idea that I am without pretense.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I was raised by parents who encouraged me to be a connoisseur of everything.

Books - Ashley's Book of Knots, any Dictionary, reference books, catalogs of art, old books, new books, kids books, adult books....books... books...

Movies - Blade Runner, Harold & Maude, Ikiru- (anything Akira Kurosawa), Edward Sizzorhands, Beatlejuice, Ed Wood, James and the Giant Peach (anything Tim Burton), Time Bandits, Wings of Desire (Der Himmel über Berlin), Whats eating Gilbert Grape? The Gods must be crazy. Being There. Roxanne. I will keep working on this one...

I did not have a TV from 1982 til late 2013. I have only recently upgraded my technology to the 'netflick' age. I have now watched Lost, Dexter, Once upon a time and The Walking Dead.

Music - I love all music but am still learning to appreciate Metal, Opera and Gangsta' Rap

Food is Life - I eat the cleanest, most nourishing items available and a little bit for fun. And then there is the joy of making food together...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Senses esp. - warmth - feel of water - human touch
and Acceptance
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-What I can contribute to the circumstances at hand
-How sloppy it is to be human
-How we can all feel so isolated and different when we are so very similar
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my kids
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love chairs. At one point I owned twenty five that I had to have in storage because there was not enough room in the house. I have not gotten rid of all of them yet.
You should message me if
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you are attracted.