I am looking to develop friendships with women after having a painfully difficult 12 year marital relationship. Friendships are, after all, what we need and deserve to create a healthy, vibrant life. Ultimately, I am seeking a devoted monogamous relationship, but it takes time to learn about each other. I am really good at focusing all my attention on the task at hand. Please forgive me if I don't respond immediately.
While i am entranced by the possibility of our conversation, writing it all out is no easy task for me. I will, to the best of my ability and in the time I have, respond to whatever threads we start until we meet and are able to cover some of this ground verbally (a method I am far more adept and more comfortable at using). I've had three dating relationships thru OKCupid over the last 2 years 2mo, 9mo and 10mo. I have deep affection for all three but alas they all decided I was not their man. The most recent thought I was 'a very complex man' the one before that said: 'You are a simple man, with a large vocabulary.' Thank goodness I have a good connection with my center, and the continuous growth that comes from acceptance, an open heart, and willingness.