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Chewbarkla

49 / M / Straight / Single

Alameda, California

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Dad, Software Engineer, Amateur Chef, Pug Wrangler. Thoughtful. Some folks walk to a singular drumbeat; I carry an entire rhythm section. Years ago I rode my bicycle from Oregon to Colorado. I'd love to do something similar again.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning how to be a single parent. Trying to raise a child to be a strong, independent problem solver. Coping with a lot changes. Cooking when I have time. Solving wacky software problems. Building a business with my friends. Sketching (badly). Learning to use color and light. Playing golf with my kid. Camping. Raising a couple of pugs. Doing whatever my kid finds interesting. Trying to get my kid to do what interests me. The kid and I just sewed her up a bespoke halloween costume. Basically I like to create.
I’m really good at
Cooking. Did I mention that already? Learning new stuff. I'm a student of much and a master of little. I play ping-pong pretty well. I can build a bicycle wheel from scratch. Urban bicycling; I've spent more time on my bicycle than I have driving my car. Nowadays maybe more time in the car than I'd like. I'll take almost anything apart. Just give me some time to get it re-assembled. Car camping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure what folks notice first, but the first comment usually has to do with my sense of humor or my t-shirts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A People's History of the United States, The World According to Garp, The Mismeasure of Man, Neuromancer, Count Zero, The Earthsea Trilogy, Baking with Julia, How to Cook Everything.

Sheryl Crow, Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Classical Indian Music, Alison Krauss, Stephen Reich, XTC, Britney Spears, Rush, Björk, Chanticleer, Fela Kuti, Wicked, Coltrane, Joni Mitchell, Kylie Minogue, Peter Gabriel

Xena, Legend of the Seeker, Star Trek (the original series), Louie CK, Bones, Breaking Bad, Invader Zim, Firefly

Food??
Pie, anything but shellfish (I'm allergic)
The six things I could never do without
Who decided six was a good number? I need one at least one more: my tool box. Seriously that's dozens of things.

My kid
Kitchen tools
Camping gear
My bicycle
Sketch pad & art tools
Music
Weather. I love everything, but I love change most of all. Every season is fantastic. Give me the misty rain of Oregon's fall. Let the snow fall on me in Colorado. Send me into the California deserts in late spring. Give me the Texas heat in the summer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend too much time thinking about everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical stopped about a two years ago. These days I'm hanging with my kid, working a bit, dinner with friends, or maybe just chilling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've made my share of mistakes. I've learned things the hard way.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends