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39 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am curious, laid-back, and expressive.
What I’m doing with my life
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protecting the public interest by day, taking acting classes by night, planning adventures by the weekend, while keeping a sense of humor about all of the above. At the same I'm trying to be a good friend to those who return the favor.

Update: Still protecting the public interest, but my work has a little more of a political element to it than my previous gig, which I have to admit, I enjoy. I'm having a blast.
I’m really good at
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skiing, cooking pasta with a shrimp tomato pepper lemon sauce, finding the exact right music for any occasion, sleeping in the shade, discussing Mad Men (update: Mad Men is still great, but my new favorite show is Breaking Bad - keeping it in the AMC family).... among many other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, perhaps a combination of my lack of hair and my eyes. Let me know if I'm off base. Sometimes people notice my socks. Seriously.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A partial list of random pleasures - Thelonious Monk, driving under the Duke Ellington Bridge, random encounters with Zydeco music, the Chicago Cubs (painful though it is to be a Cubs fan), film noir, pinot noir, pool halls with great juke boxes, dark senses of humor, the Rocky Mountains, quirky senses of humor, various quotes attributed to either Bunk or Omar from the Wire, foods that evoke nostalgia, and the audacity of Chrissie Hynde circa 1980.

Update: I've discovered that I love podcasts like its 2009. WTF, Planet Money, all the slate gabfests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
conversations with smart inquisitive people,
plus five other things that may come to me at a later time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having a drink with friends, hanging out at home resting from a long week, or out somewhere listening to live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit to a lot, but not necessarily on a website.
You should message me if
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you are so inclined, if you would like to talk political strategy or dark comedies over a couple beers, if you're looking for a partner to climb a mountain, go for a bike ride, or see a show at the Studio Theater. Will help me practice Spanish. - I just started learning.