31 Christchurch, New Zealand
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My self-summary
Kind, compassionate, caring, and naughtier than you'd expect.

I love music, I like interesting people, I'm old enough to not need to go into town every weekend but I still enjoy it when I do. I'm terribly honest. I don't tend to judge people much, but the people I get along with the most are the open minded kind. I don't do drugs (other than caffeine and alcohol) and smoking is a hard limit for me. Sorry, it's a personal taste thing.

I like unusual people; I have some unusual interests myself.

I'm an introvert. That doesn't mean I don't like people; it means I have a limited social battery, and need time to myself to rest and recharge. So when I do people (ahem) I do it well and I have a great time, but often after too much socializing I need a day or three to myself to rest up.

I'm a clinical social worker; I like to think of that as meaning that I'm a Professional Nice Guy. I love my job; every day I know I'm doing something meaningful, making a difference. I never have to worry that I'm wasting my life, because I'm helping other people make their lives better. It's challenging as all hell; but it's satisfying as fuck.

I am cheerful, confident, and irreverent as hell.
What I’m doing with my life
Being awesome and responsible and polite and all the good things at work; being a total hedonist at home. Oh, and geeking out a lot. That's important.
Also, learning shibari. It's amazing.
I’m really good at
Being organized, or so I'm told. I'm also getting better at relationships and communication. And I'm modest. So modest.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall, dark, and enthusiastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books... probably anything by Jim Butcher. I like fantasy novels, if they're well written. My favorite movies are the Addams Family, Avengers, Iron Man (all of them) etc. I'm a big geeky Marvel fan. I love Scrubs and Firefly and Castle and Dollhouse and Star Trek Voyager. I get addicted to shows, particularly geeky ones. I think all you need to make your day awesome is the right soundtrack, so music is pretty important. I'm trying a lot of new stuff right now, fortunately I know some people who really know their music. Oh yeah, food. Asian food is freaking awesome. I like it even better than italian.
The six things I could never do without
My phone! I use it for everything. Organizer, writing, camera, and to hold whole encyclopedias of medicine. My iPod, my internet, booze, books, and women who appreciate any or all of those things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Potentially having a movie night at home; at a workshop; at a party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Actually, that could cover quite a lot. Hmm. I guess you'll have to ask.
You should message me if
You enjoy the unusual and distinctive, and you have a good sense of humour. Humour is very important.