Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Kind, compassionate, caring, and naughtier than you'd expect.
I love music, I like interesting people, I'm old enough to not need
to go into town every weekend but I still enjoy it when I do. I'm
terribly honest. I don't tend to judge people much, but the people
I get along with the most are the open minded kind. I don't do
drugs (other than caffeine and alcohol) and smoking is a hard limit
for me. Sorry, it's a personal taste thing.
I like unusual people; I have some unusual interests myself.
I'm an introvert. That doesn't mean I don't like people; it means I
have a limited social battery, and need time to myself to rest and
recharge. So when I do people (ahem) I do it well and I have a
great time, but often after too much socializing I need a day or
three to myself to rest up.
I'm a clinical social worker; I like to think of that as meaning
that I'm a Professional Nice Guy. I love my job; every day I know
I'm doing something meaningful, making a difference. I never have
to worry that I'm wasting my life, because I'm helping other people
make their lives better. It's challenging as all hell; but it's
satisfying as fuck.
I am cheerful, confident, and irreverent as hell.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being awesome and responsible and polite and all the good things at
work; being a total hedonist at home. Oh, and geeking out a lot.
Also, learning shibari. It's amazing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being organized, or so I'm told. I'm also getting better at
relationships and communication. And I'm modest. So modest.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, dark, and enthusiastic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books... probably anything by Jim Butcher
. I like fantasy
novels, if they're well
written. My favorite movies are the Addams Family, Avengers, Iron
Man (all of them) etc. I'm a big geeky Marvel fan. I love Scrubs
and Firefly and Castle and Dollhouse and Star Trek Voyager. I get
addicted to shows, particularly geeky ones. I think all you need to
make your day awesome is the right soundtrack, so music is pretty
important. I'm trying a lot of new stuff right now, fortunately I
know some people who really know their music. Oh yeah, food. Asian
food is freaking awesome. I like it even better than italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone! I use it for everything. Organizer, writing, camera, and
to hold whole encyclopedias of medicine. My iPod, my internet,
booze, books, and women who appreciate any or all of those things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Potentially having a movie night at home; at a workshop; at a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Actually, that could cover quite a lot. Hmm. I guess you'll have to
You should message me if
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You enjoy the unusual and distinctive, and you have a good sense of
humour. Humour is very important.
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