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28 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:59am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Well first off, hello! My name is Joel and I will be your tour guide here at my profile. Get comfortable, you're in for a thrill!

Seriously, I hope you are all doing well. I'm a Chicago resident, been living here nearly 10 years now. I am originally from the northern Illinois suburbs, where my parents still live. I went to both undergraduate and law school here in Chicago. I work downtown at a small firm. My cases vary but I practice mainly real estate and family law.

I'm kind of a big movie/video game nerd, though I don't spend much time playing video games anymore. I also enjoy watching and playing sports. I try to keep fit and I still play basketball at my college gym on a weekly basis as part of that.

I really enjoy traveling when I have the opportunity. I grew up partly in Japan and Hawaii as a kid before moving to Illinois. I have traveled around Europe a bunch, as recently as 2012 for six weeks. I would like to do some more local traveling like out to the US west coast soon.

I believe in giving back to your community. I used to be a lot more politically active but I still do legal pro bono work from time to time, which I find rewarding.

I'll leave the rest to your questions. I do want to put out there that I am aware that a lot of women in OkCupid get blasted with a lot of messages from creepy men. While utterly saddening, I hope it does not sour your opinions on other people on this site and your willingness to meet someone new.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
See above. Also, been doing swing dance classes off and on for about 9 months now. They are a lot of fun! I have been making these a thing and really would like to get some more dance partners if you are ever interested in getting together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
having crazy adventures? Getting lost is an art form, one in which I seem to have mastered. Also, I like to put myself out there and see what happens.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Boyish charm? Haha, I really don't know. I'd much rather hear what you first notice about me than me guessing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Some of my favorite all-time books include Lord of the Rings, Frankenstein by Mary Shelley, Devil in the White City, and World War Z. Currently rereading the Game of Thrones books, in reverse. I have found it pretty illuminating.

Movies - Way too many to name but let me throw some movies out there. Braveheart, Inception, Pirates of the Carribean 1-3, Star Wars (original trilogy + I like Revenge of the Sith), Lord of the Rings, 500 days of Summer, Fifth Element, Shawshank Redemption, .

Music - Mostly an alternative/rock kind of guy. I do have a real affinity for oldies music (particularly 60's and 80's). I also have been on a jazz/swing music kick.

TV shows - LOST is my all-time favorite show (well...season 1-4 anyways). Current favorite might be Downton Abbey. I have been really enjoying Sherlock recently. The last few years others have included: Firefly, Community, 30 Rock, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Archer, Arrow, Castle, House of Cards, Cosmos, and Orange is the New Black.

Food - I'm pretty open to most types of food. Indian food is my favorite of any type of "ethnic" category. I have a bit of a sweet tooth as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Social interaction
Access to knowledge
Medical care

What a silly question!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can learn and grow.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends. My family lives in the northern suburbs so not uncommon I'm out there on a Friday night sometimes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is it really private if I make it public here? I feel philosophically perplexed by the wording of this question.
You should message me if
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You are actually interested in physically meeting someone. I understand it is difficult to open yourself to it, but I don't think this is going to work out if you are not open to meeting someone physically through this website.