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38 • Philadelphia, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 6:14pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Politics / Government
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I know my profile name says Chicago but actually I am in Philadelphia after I was in DC for a stretch and now I am in New York once a week and would love to meet some lovelies there. I have my profile sometime listed as Philly and sometimes as NYC because I'm really available both places. (And I guess in between, if there's an Amtrak stop near you.)
I'm interested in conversation, perspiration, elucidation, fornication, gratification, inspiration, and hanging out at the train station, although not necessarily in that order. I have been known to enjoy a good hot dog, although I stress this is not a euphemism. I take my work very seriously, but I leave it at the office, I take my play just as seriously and I have to remember that I can't bring it into the office. I lived for too long in DC, that square town, and I'm a round peg always looking for some holes to bang myself into. (Ok, that one probably was a euphemism)
I'm a committed feminist and liberal who takes my hedonism seriously - in the sense that I have serious fun when I play and I'm serious about everyone being treated with respect.
Back when OKC asked you to lead with three adjectives, I listed myself as loquacious, salacious, and bold ... it is perhaps a sign of my loquacity that it is taking utmost effort to resist adding further adjectives now that the meme is more flexible.
2. My children. They're pretty good too.
3. The 1st Amendment. Take that shit seriously.
4. Some method for recording my thoughts in words.
6. The freedom, as ordained by our common humanity, to walk out my front door at 2 in the morning in search of a good burrito, the early edition of the Chicago Sun-Times, or the destiny promised by the new dawn.
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