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ChiliDee

38 / M / Straight / Single

Melbourne, Australia

His Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from space camp
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Indonesian (Okay), Hungarian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am one crazy, self made, successful 'big kid' at heart.... 
Old Schooled, principled, dedicated - mischief bandit - I invented the glass - Half full! Can't shake me, break me, only love and truth can save me. I'm all or nothing no ifs, buts or may-bees!

Soooo what can I say that hasn't already been said?

If you don't love yourself, you'll always be chasing people who don't love you, either".

To put it simply, I tell it like it is - I'm straight up and have no trouble expressing myself.. I am a true believer in faith, an advocate of honesty and place respect right up there with trust! Having said that, when it comes to meeting people half way (whether love, friendship or business) I'm always there first - so what does that mean?

I guess it just means I can accept the things I cannot change, I have courage to change the things I can; and (hopefully) have wisdom to know the difference!

Oh and I'm faaaaar from perfect, but I like it and it works for me!

Alas YOU do whatever works for YOU - as the saying goes :
" Imperfection can be perfection in another's eyes"

You just gotta open up to see it with your heart mind and soul!

Nuff said..
What I’m doing with my life
following a new dream in the Entertainment Industry dabbling in Screen writing and short film and acting!

A retired athlete and dancer that is focused on the next stage of my life... Opening up to let in the wonders that i may have earned and to never stop giving, as benevolence flows within my heart.
I’m really good at
This sounds like the part where one gets to blow their own trumpet...

Lets just say spelling, expression, goofing off, entertaining crowds and training others. I was a coach for an Olympic sport teaching college kids in the ACS program and only realised my work was appreciated when half the school signed a petition to keep me when I announced my retirement!
SO good with kids? Well the kids think so, The teachers do as the parents so that's gotta mean something right? haha
The first things people usually notice about me
I am what you call, "The uncommon man"..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book - The Prophet - Khalil Gibran, The Mixicologist, French Limerics

Movies - International/Local and Short film.
7 pounds...absolutely fantastic, well written, well directed!!
Sideways - Paul Giamatta - class actor

Music - Neo Soul... All the real cats of their time. Stevie Wonder D'Angelo... Music moves me and inspires me constantly!
The six things I could never do without
would it really make a difference?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The importance of my role as a Brother, a Son and uncle in our large family.
The little ones look up to me and I feel I've embraced the mature man that understands that I am a role model, their older confidant and the one they can turn to for anything. I wont change that for the world :) - In turn It gives me insight to not making them think I'm a great person, but to truly BE the better man they believe I am!
On a typical Friday night I am
The last 4 Fridays I have been in Singapore and Vietnam and almost made it to China so now I have returned it will be new exciting and interesting - bring on FRIDAY!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
will be for the one who thinks I'm worth admitting stuff to as well..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You like to treat others that way you like to be treated....unless you like the freaky outlandish stuff haha....

The simple things often mean the most so if it starts with a 'smile' or a 'hello' then ill be quite content with that!