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38 • Tokyo, Japan • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 15
- Black, Other
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- English (Fluently)
Two years ago I got dumped ... and that was the best thing that could have happened to me. I was living the sham life of the typical working man: work all day; eat; sleep a tad; repeat. I really was not having fun. Getting dumped, re-awoke me to the fun, open, spontaneous and adventurous person I used to be.
I re-awoke to the fact that life isn’t about ’securing the future’ the future just is not securable… Everything’s in the experience of what experiences are available now. I won’t go into details here - do ask me if you want a preview to the novel… joking… but I’d be glad to chat on the longer drawn out version… maybe over drinks?
I love landing somewhere new, enjoying savory food at unique restaurants, and tasting new drinks, ogling at swanky decor at beautiful hotels or restaurants or bars or something naturally beautiful on my travels… I enjoy learning the most about the culture of each place that I travel; enjoying it just as folks who live there would enjoy it. I work hard; work foots the bill; I love my job.
I’m open to meeting people. I’m the first to have unexpected adventures, expanding myself in terms of things I’ve never done before. I sometimes get goosebumps and the feeling that “this is an experience I should remember”… I cherish those happier moments. Then there are also those times when I hear my heart beating out of my chest, scared that I’ve really “done it this time” and perhaps this might be my end. But when it turns out better than I thought; i feel the risks were justified. I really don’t learn to play it safer… I hope I can remember to never do.
I live in SF - and call it home. I moved here from NYC a few years back. I live in San Francisco I spend so much time in other cities that it’s best to call it one of my homes. I’m looking to share travel and life stories on this journey that is life spotted. The best stories are spotted with moment of pleasure and interesting challenges.
Bonus points if you tell me what I make references to :)
I vacillate from too little info to too much info but I'm ready to explain more about what is special about me by message. Feel free to write me
You think a date or a non-date - for that matter - can be in itself a great, unserious adventure. You're simply up to grab beers, and trade adventures
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