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ChillOutPete

39 Saratoga, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from masters program
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Status
Single
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm in San Francisco Bay Area and would like to meet some people; make memories; have fun!
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Two years ago I got dumped ... and that was the best thing that could have happened to me. I was living the sham life of the typical working man: work all day; eat; sleep a tad; repeat. I really was not having fun. Getting dumped, re-awoke me to the fun, open, spontaneous and adventurous person I used to be.

I re-awoke to the fact that life isn’t about ’securing the future’ the future just is not securable… Everything’s in the experience of what experiences are available now. I won’t go into details here - do ask me if you want a preview to the novel… joking… but I’d be glad to chat on the longer drawn out version… maybe over drinks?

I love landing somewhere new, enjoying savory food at unique restaurants, and tasting new drinks, ogling at swanky decor at beautiful hotels or restaurants or bars or something naturally beautiful on my travels… I enjoy learning the most about the culture of each place that I travel; enjoying it just as folks who live there would enjoy it. I work hard; work foots the bill; I love my job.

I’m open to meeting people. I’m the first to have unexpected adventures, expanding myself in terms of things I’ve never done before. I sometimes get goosebumps and the feeling that “this is an experience I should remember”… I cherish those happier moments. Then there are also those times when I hear my heart beating out of my chest, scared that I’ve really “done it this time” and perhaps this might be my end. But when it turns out better than I thought; i feel the risks were justified. I really don’t learn to play it safer… I hope I can remember to never do.

I live in the SF Bay Area - and call it home. I moved here from NYC a few years back. I spend so much time in other cities that it’s best to call it one of my homes. I’m looking to share travel and life stories on this journey that is life spotted. The best stories are spotted with moment of pleasure and interesting challenges.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling yonder here and yonder there. If I could count all the countries I've lived in or traveled to recently, it'd be quite the delightful conversation. Suffice to say, I took enjoyed in all those places. Loved the food and met some pretty awesome people. I love it! Thank you; more please…

Bonus points if you tell me what I make references to :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’m really good at laughing at the silly things in life and being the most welcoming person i know. Once I had incapacitated myself somehow and was prostrate on the floor in quite a bit of pain. Can you believe, in that moment, I laughed at myself? I mean.. I had fits of mirth saying to myself.."silly.. next time, drink more water”… You've got to enjoy it all .. Cause without the bitter, baby, the sweet ain't as sweet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm fit, dark and hansome. I am charming. I have an accent

I vacillate from too little info to too much info but I'm ready to explain more about what is special about me by message. Feel free to write me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love books and music. I used to read all the time. I mean all-the-time. I got to thinking that reading can be a form of escape.. I mean life's going on by whilst I'm not engaged it in, while I'm just reading. And life's where all those words, stories, experiences come from right? So yeah, I dropped the book, took a walk and said hi to everyone I felt the urge to connect with. But I still read sometimes. Just ask me but some favorites authors.. In terms of music. hmm.. i love transformative sounds and lyrics.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a certain verve and jest for living as an outlook on life
health
water
air
a passport
my wits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much time thinking about the past and the future... I'm now spending a lot more time being in the present now and enjoying it
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm exploring something new for me..if that's a new live music band great..or a magic show..or walking the city to see all those alive people that makes the vibrant ...vibrant
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It wouldn't be private anymore if I posted it on a dating site, right?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're piqued by anything I've written above and want to know more..

You think a date or a non-date - for that matter - can be in itself a great, unserious adventure. You're simply up to grab beers, and trade adventures