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30 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 3
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
:::::SPOILER ALERT::::: I'm a Black guy who has a cat 😼😸😺

- I was nominated 4 times for "Boyfriend Of The Year"🏆by the ABFA (American Boyfriends Association) and won in 2010! Okay I made that up, but it looks good on my resume 😉

- ENFJ ( Compatible❤ with INFP or ISFP )

- Playing sports💃 is one of my greatest thrills, it gives me the feeling of working/pushing💪 myself beyond my limits. I workout 5 days a week & "try" to eat healthy🍌.

- I was blessed with a Grandmother who is a travel agents/hotel critic.. I've traveled✈ most my life, Africa, Europe, Mexico, Japan, Philippines & most of the States. You can say the privilege has opened my mind, & given me a broader view of this small rock we call earth🌎.

At the end of the day, I am hoping to meet a passionate woman who can discuss the world around her, will hit the gym & lead a healthy life with me, not into games/ ready for a relationship, and will cuddle on the couch and watch old movies with me.🎬
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I escaped from Detroit to attend San Francisco State to study film. Being creative is my passion & I've been told I'm a pretty decent writer. Everyday I wake up thrilled that people pay me to do the thing I love.

For my main source of income I work at the CPUC. I run a small crew, completing construction and moving projects within the capital building.

I'm also CEO of a small start up production company named OddvilleEntertainment. In a nutshell we help music artists, actors/actresses & models get their foot in the door..

I also dabble in music:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever I choose to put my mind too, Creative writing is like breathing to me..
I'm better then decent putting the ball in the basket, Dominate at dominoes ;)
And know my way around a kitchen, if I am designated to navigate!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women tend to compliment my eyes/arms/bum (From experience)
Women also notice & appreciate I'm a genuine sweet guy..

Plus I have a Championship belt in sarcasm, can you handle it?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Anything written by James Patterson or David Baldacci..

Movies: Bad Boys, Gladiator, Depated, Dark Knight Trilogy, Lion King, Battle LA, Avatar, Lucky Number Slevin, Kick Ass, Avengers, Die Hard, Insidious, Halloween, Stephen Kings IT.. ECT...

TV: Fallen Skies, Walking Dead, Heroes, Scrubs, Martin, Wayan Brothers, Fresh Prince, Boardwalk Empire & Game Of Thrones.

Food: Sea Food, Thai, Italian, Ummm really pretty much anything!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being Creative
Amazing Hugs

In no particular order :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What To Cross Next Off My Bucket List!!
(New Zealand ✔✔)
(Next is Bermuda island)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing typical about my Friday Night 😉

Hahaha to not be cliche, I'm usually found at:

-The Gym
-With the fellas
-The Pub
-Exploring the city
-The Movies
-Snuggled up with a book

Fingers crossed, I meet someone special to spend my Friday nights with!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an only child & never knew my father..

Lost my fiancé to cancer 3 years ago & I'm just now getting back in the dating world.
So be gentle :)

This is a special song too me:

The first commercial I ever aired on a major network -->
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You're emotionally available/looking for something serious.
-You're somewhere between a thrill seeker and a couch potato.
- You aren't afraid to engage in sports with me or tell me what's on your mind.
- You engage in conversation
- You're not so quick to anger
-You're an affectionate person (loves to cuddle)
- Got skills in the kitchen

Bonus Pts: You like the color yellow, You're a L.A. Lakers Fan!! You know who Batman is, You're a K.C. Chiefs Fan, You played sports growing up :)