Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a late-bloomer who's done a ton of work, gets it, and is ready
to create something sourceful and sexy with the woman who knows
what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it. Bonus points if you
enjoy good Scotch and dark chocolate.
I'm in an ethical open partnership with a beautiful and powerful
woman named Susannah. If you're in that world or want to be, please
read on! (Note however, we're not looking for a threesome or
another couple to play with.)
I am unafraid to communicate, confident and outgoing, secure in who
I am and what I'm here for. I love to cook, am an artist by
profession, and believe that integrity is the foundation for an
amazing life. I have several communities of close friends, and I'm
the guy people come to when they want to step up their game to the
I'm looking for you if you're radiantly feminine, sexy and playful.
You get that a trusting relationship with a powerful man lets you
relax into life, and you demand integrity in yourself and your man.
If you're secure in yourself and reliably empower other people, I
want to meet you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm growing a successful photography business. Next to being in
love, it's one of the most inspiring and challenging things I've
ever done. I love my work, and I love how other people can be
transformed by my work.
I'm a leader and coach at Landmark Worldwide, a personal
I run a conscious dating workshop called Slow Speed-Dating.
I'm a leader in my men's circle, and I support men in living their
Food and cooking is a big part of my life. I shop at the farmer's
market every week, and I cook several times a week. I love cooking
for my friends and lovers. I'm a cast iron evangelist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking for two
Killer dinner parties
Getting the little things
Getting lost, asking directions
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sharp New York sense of humor. (I'm not from there, but my sense
of humor is.)
People are consistently unable to guess my age accurately. That
makes me lucky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Ethical Slut
The Thousand Autumns of Jacob DeZoet
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
Salmon Rushdie said: "Love is better than civilization."
Don't have one. But every few years I get into one of the cable
long-form dramas: Sopranos, The Wire, Mad Men, Breaking Bad.
Haven't been seeing movies lately! Nothing wrong with movies, but
I've been doing other things.
The Godfather I and II
Being John Malkovich
Richard Thompson -- folk rocker, one of the best guitar players in
Randy Weeks, Mike Stinson -- country-based roots rock. Don't judge.
This shit rocks.
Various vaguely middle eastern EDM.
I'm an omnivore. I love my farmers market and my cast iron. I cook.
A lot. I try to buy mostly organic vegetables and ethical meat. I
love dark chocolate and excellent Scotch.
My dad likes to rate fruit. He'll open a melon and say, "It's a
B+". I love slicing the rind off an A+ orange with my ridiculously
sharp chef's knife and paring the flesh into a bowl, then eating it
with a fork. Yes, this is an odd way to eat an orange.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My excellent family.
My custom carbon steel chef's knives.
Food. Procuring it, cooking it, photographing it, sharing it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to cook.
How to make people look great.
How to provide freedom from suffering.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Running a workshop.
Cooking for friends.
Chilling with Susannah.
At a play party.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was 13 I was really into Barry Manilow.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Confident, feminine, sexy and accomplished.
Accurately represented by your pictures, or willing to tell me up
front if you're not.
You're in San Francisco, or know how to get here.
Who are you looking for?
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