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ChooseThisOne

46 / M / straight / Single

Cambridge, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Romanian (Fluently), German (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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I am confident, sensual, tactile, and cheeky.

My Self-Summary

Confident, tactile, thoughtful, a warm, playful 6 foot man.
Seeking a confident woman (partner, best mate, lover) to share great experiences.

Cheeky, sparky, thinking, good company – a sensual man with a strongly developed sense of responsibility tempered by an unlimited capacity for fun.

Designed for pleasure purposes, companionship and the deeper things.

Seeking a confident woman to share great experiences. Seeking pleasure. Generating adventures.

If the attraction, is mutual let's meet. You could explore somewhere with me (gallery, museum, park or heath, the coast, London, Cambridge, somewhere else). Allow yourself to have fun: play - freely; express yourself ... be yourself - completely. Chat, find new places, stimulate your mind and mine; do things: check out some art, run for pleasure, walk along walls, make inane observations and then giggle; smile - feel good - just be ...

If you feel great and there is a bright spark between us, introduce me to your favourite places, talk openly, open up your soul with me - in a cafe, in a bar, over dinner - or elsewhere; dance with me (as wildly as you like), do whatever you feel like. If you want more: tease me (leave your work behind you). If there is amazing pyrotechnic chemistry, satisfy your desires. Enjoy yourself fully with this warm, playful, considerate and sensual man.

You are probably a curious, thoughtful, interesting, woman. I'd love to spend time with someone who is amazingly friendly, totally unprejudiced, deep, tactile, sensual and very, very playful; ... I'd like you even more if you are adventurous, interested in the arts, talkative, able to find amusement in the absurd, engaging - and charming. Oh and sexy would be great ... a dress or skirt wearing woman with a ready smile who dreams of all things naughty, but does her utmost to behave ...

~~~ write to me if you think we might like each other ~~~

I have one friendly daughter to look after, she is 17, increasingly independent and very sociable - she's happy for me to find love and friends. My divorce is about to complete ...

~~~ it's a good time to meet ~~~

Personality:
Confident, Courageous, Gregarious, Imaginative, Positive, Sensual, Thoughtful. ~....~ You ~....~ have been ~....~ hypnotised ~....~ write to this man ~....~ today ~....~ write to him right now .... ~....~ ~....~ right now .... write now .... right now .... write now ... write now .. write now . .. write now ...

What I’m doing with my life

I work with a small team to develop software and web solutions. It's a small company - and like all the other small co.s we expect to make it work financially ... which may or may not happen. If it doesn't, I have a deep voice and several female friends suggested that the best place for it would be on a late night 090 line ... and to do voice overs for documentaries and corporate videos or reading books.

I spend some time looking after my father who is about to go into a home for the elderly - and some time looking after my 17 year old daughter - who is about to start her gap year ... as for me - it will mean freedom again ... I really enjoyed living in Romania for five years, perhaps I will check out somewhere else for a while ... Grenada in Spain, parts of Italy, Paris, Amsterdam, Buenos Aires, Hong Kong, Tokyo and Shanghai all appeal ...

I have a lot of free time - and would like to add to my existing social life having fun with people from OKCupid in Cambridge or London - you could also meet my existing group of friends if you'd like.

I’m really good at

Communicating with complete strangers for no apparent reason. Guessing people's ages from their elbows. Taking pictures. Helping people feel at ease in any situation.

The first things people usually notice about me

... I'm normally so interested in the other person that I really don't know what occurs to them about me, unless they decide to tell me. I'm 6 foot and smile quite a lot. I'm normally very open (an Anglo-South-American background) and will - kindly and sometimes animatedly - talk with you about anything.

When my hair is long the first thing that blokes normally say is "you look like Mick Jagger mate" this happened ten times one night in London.
I don't know what women think (I am a bloke after all) - but I'd like to be able to suss that one out or be told it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Film ... Stimulating - thought provoking, eye opening, irresistibly funny or simply great observation. Many foreign films - and those that open my eyes to other ways of thinking, ways of being and other places. Some of these include Respiro, Tilsamens [Together] (Moodyson), Stranger Than Paradise, Crazy Family (a Japanese black comedy)

I'm into art galleries, dancing, fringe/experimental theatre, gigs; and - of course - eating.

Music ... I like a really wide variety of music - if it seems to have been produced by intelligent beings. There is something great about seeing a band play live in a smallish venue.

Check out www.musicovery.com

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Those that I love, have loved and will love, friends, projects I'm working on ... and other stuff too.

On a typical Friday night I am

Seeking pleasure. Generating adventures.

You should message me if

You'd like to meet someone Confident, Courageous, Gregarious, Imaginative, Positive, Sensual, Thoughtful. ~....~ You ~....~ have been ~....~ hypnotised ~....~ write to this man ~....~ today ~....~ write to him right now .... ~....~ ~....~ right now .... write now .... right now .... write now ... write now .. write now . .. write now ...