***Update: Dec 27th 2013. As if today I have switched to the Blu brand ecig. I know a few of you who won't go out with a smoker because of the smell and it taste, I do have to report that there is no smell and no aftertaste according to the wife. So I changing my smoking status to occasional but keep in mind I kind of do. Smoking for me has mostly been a routine and something to do with my hands and mouth. So I am using this to help quit and will be doing the step down in strength till it's at zero.***
***Please if I send you a message, please respond back whether it be a "Not Interested" or "I am Interested." Just not responding is pretty rude and how am I suppose to know, I don't read minds.***
What can I say I am a bisexual man who is married to a great woman with 3 wonderful kids. My wife and I are polyamorous, which means in layman's terms "an open marriage." We have been together for 14 years and married for the last 4 of that. I am looking to have some fun right now and if anything serious comes out of it so let it be. I'm looking for a friend first and a lover second. I do have to make plans for dates and such because of my kids. I love watching movies, playing pool, bowling, hanging with friends and I will try anything that is asked within reason. I'm up for walks and hikes, they just have to be pretty easy because I have two bum knees. I hope that's not a deal breaker.
I have no ideal person I am looking for, you just have to be cool, have some of my same interests and be ok with me being in an open marriage. As I said friends first and lovers second. Yet I do know that there are the type of people on here that are just wanting a FWB type of relationship and those are fine as well. Just let me know what you are looking for and we can make it work.
I heard about the site on an episode of the "Sex Nerd Sandra" podcast on the Nerdist Industries. So yes, I am a podcast nerd and listen to SIR (SmodCo Internet Radio) and Nerdist Industries, but that just means I am informed on pop/nerd culture and entertainment news.
Also I am a huge Star Wars and Star Trek fan. At the moment I am engaging in making costumes to be able to join the 501st and Mandalorian Mercs. Both are public service clubs with a Star Wars theme.