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41 Belvidere, IL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 31–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am a divorced father of three beautiful little girls, whom I share joint custody of.

I am also a slight bit sarcastic and goofy, which you might pick up on if you read further.

Finally, I am the reincarnation of President Grover Cleveland. You can call me Super Grover.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to find an acceptable mix of man-cave and princess castle for my home.

Seeking out converts for the cult I plan to found based upon the worship of Mark Grace.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and taking care of those that I care about.

Getting injured playing softball. What's up with that???
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My size. I am not a tiny guy...I describe my build as retired football player.

The cartoon neon thought bubbles that may suddenly appear next to my head if I find something obnoxious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I love John Sandford's Prey series, Tom Clancy's books, Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum books (man was that movie bad though), and a lot of the fantasy genre.
Movies: action, drama, comedy. I like movies.
Television: Big Bang Theory,.NCIS, The Mentalist are a few of my favorites.

Food: It had better have had a face, sugar, or grain in it at some point. I make a great ground scallop patty served with a sour cream and port wine reduction. (this recipe is facetious, in case you didn't catch it. I thought that this was one of the more disgusting combinations I could think of, and yet someone commented that it sounded tasty. Blech...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughters (there are 3 of them so I am counting that as 3)
Online banking.
A motor vehicle.
My morning shower.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Raising my daughters to be independent, strong, intelligent women or as more simply expressed by Chris Rock "Keeping them off the pole".

Why so many people feel the need to take pictures of themselves sitting in their cars...from the inside.

How many people have not learned how to rotate their pictures so you don't have to cock your head 90 degrees to look at them.

Why 97.4% of the people with "hot" or "sexy" in their screen name, well, aren't.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing with my daughters or cleaning the house. Every now and then I even make it out of the house to have a little fun.

Reviewing the collected works of Pinky and The Brain to further my own plans to take over the world. Moohahaha.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Pretty much anything. Feel free to ask any three questions you would like.

I snuck into your bathroom last night and installed wi-fi cameras to see if you brush your teeth before you go to bed.

That sushi is bait for catching fish that you later cook and preferably deep fry.

***answering that it's private or I'm not going to share that is just weak...the question is what is the most private thing you are willing to share. It doesn't say you need to admit to stealing your mother's underwear or anything...have some fun with it. Do you only use a certain type of soap? Do you have to have your plate arranged with the entree closest to you? (I do...seems more balanced that way!). But don't cop out!

I was recently called out for not having something too revealing on here. So I shall add this: I enjoy using pomegranate-mango body wash. Yep, I just lost some man points. But I smell delicious.
You should message me if
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You are honest, not looking for an open relationship, you enjoy simple pleasures such as walking or watching a movie together, aren't uncomfortable with physical affection, and don't cheat on your significant others. Basically, if you are looking for a pretty good guy.

You do not use the term "I'ma" in any context. You have not been investigated in the past 12 months by the Secret Service for threatening a politician for their stance on corn subsidies. No more than 30% of your body is covered with tattoo ink. Or if it is, it is quality work and not something Bubba Jo could have done in his prison cell with a splinter and some motor oil. Oh, and it's not a picture of your dead grandma in a spot where she is staring at me while I try to, uh, gain carnal knowledge. You think that crimped hair was pretty hot and should definitely make a comeback, but only for WNBA players.

Finally, you should message me if you think that dating should be fun and enjoyable. There are a lot of profiles on here where it sounds like the woman is planning an attack on a foreign capitol! Relax!