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32 • Grand Blanc, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Doesn’t have kids
So in seeing what some women have put into their profiles about pretty specific things that I am sure guys have messaged them. I am sure women get a wide range of messages from men varying from gross to awkward to creepy. I would like to point out that I am not in any of those categories.
I also want to point out that unlike some other guys on this site:
-I am NOT looking for sex.
-If I message you I did read your profile.
-If you do not reply to my message I perfectly understand you are not interested and I am mature enough to not message you repeatedly.
-I am open to making friend on here or starting a relationship.
-I am an honest person to a fault sometimes I do not play games or pretend to be someone I am not. If you message me hopefully you are looking to talk to a somewhat dorky guy who is successful in his career, is a Pittsburgh Penguins fan, and has a wide range of interests!
Movies: I think two of my most favorite movie are The Boy in The Striped Pajamas and Super Troopers. I have a pretty diverse movie taste.
Television: I normally DVR the shows I enjoy which are: Spartacus, Game of Thrones, How I Met Your Mother, The Walking Dead, True Blood, and most recently Bates Motel.
Music: I have some pretty diverse tastes in music. I like just about everything. Some of my favorite bands/artists are Halestorm, Sick Puppies, Dive, Device, Blake Shelton, Kenny Chesney, Justin Timberlake, and much more.
To be honest I'm probably not going to send the first message. Not because I'm shy or have nothing to say. Mainly it is because I'm tired of reading through someone's profile I think I might be able to have a decent conversation with, thinking up a genuine message to learn more about them, and not hearing anything back (even though they "love meeting new people"). Not that I blame many of the women. I can see from your profiles that this site to crawling with douchebag guys who are filling up your inbox. I just think it is a waste of my already valuable time to send out a bunch of thoughtful message to hear nothing back.
So that being said please shoot me a message if you're looking for friendship or maybe someone to date. I actually enjoy meeting new people and will at least say hi back.
DO NOT message me though if you have no direction in your life or ambition. Please don't message me either if you don't know the difference between your and you're or there, their, and they're.
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