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44 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Today – 7:51pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
- I am sarcastic and enjoy witty exchange.
- I enjoy trying new things. Recently I started kayaking with my dog (he is not very helpful but he enjoys it very much).
- I like my alone time. However, I’m not a hermit who saves his pee in jars...nor is “alone time” a code for spending this time honing my wizardry skills in World of Warcraft.
- I vacillate between being responsible with my finances and splurging on toys, trips or just good times

My date:
- You want to share your secrets with me....and mine with you. Equally so, you want to share your dreams and fears.
- You have your own interests....but you will invite me to participate...and won’t be mad if I decline.
- You enjoy exploring our differences as much as our similarities.
- You are willing to name our first born child “Trogdor” works equally well for a boy or a girl.
- You will surprise me from time to time. I don’t mean this in a jump-out-of-the-bushes at me sort of way...but other than that, I hope you can figure this out without any prompting.
- You also enjoy your alone time....but also sans pee filled jars or W.o.W.
- You let me act like myself and you tell me that I am enough. This sounds simple, but this one above all others has proven to be the most elusive. Well...maybe the baby name is the most elusive, but this is a close second.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a good job but not sure what will be the next move to advance my career....maybe change companies, win the lotto, start consulting, or something unforeseen. But that is just the 9-to-5 part of my life anyway and I try to "work to live". So, I try to travel more, enjoy time with my dog and my friends. Always picking up a new hobby (and usually dropping an old one).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making people wonder if I am being serious or am I joking?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have a social filter. That is to say, if I think something is interesting or funny, I tend to say it. These tend to be viewed as inappropriate or crass by some people. Clearly I know when to keep my mouth shut about such things, but I really am not a fan of self-censorship and really tend to just let things fly out and accept the consequences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Since the Walking Dead is on summer break, I am reading a lot of ZA books. That is "Zombie Apocalypse" for those uninitiated. Keeping it classy.

Movies: Not much for the Marvel comic book stuff that keeps coming out lately (a female friend dragged me to Thore), but I do like the mainstream. But finding an independent film (in Hillcrest theater or online) is what I really enjoy. And as an Easter Egg for ya, I have an IMDB page of my own because I have an Associate Producer credit for a documentary about one of my favorite bands...can you find me?

Music: anything except Country. Having said that, if we click on all levels except that you adore Country...then we can revisit this topic.

Food: The spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Rambo (my dog)
comfy bedding
Crystal Hot Sauce (a.k.a. Louisiana's Pure Hot Sauce)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what are my survival chances in the zombie apocalypse? Do I want to survive? I think it all depends on if they are fast-zombies or slow-zombies. Time will tell!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home or out. It really depends on the type of week and what Saturday has in store for me. To be clear, when I am dating someone I tend to go out more....but when I am not dating I am quite happy to be at home alone reading or watching the idiot box.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have stolen money from every woman that I've ever dated. But that's all behind me now. I promise.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to meet a man who will NOT send you dick-pics. I said "NOT".

Honestly, I have some female friends on OKC and the kind of tools that they meet on here makes me wonder how on earth am I still single if those dick-pic-sending-dorks are my "competition". So, enter the dick-pic-free-zone and hit me up.