46 San Diego, CA
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My self-summary
- I am sarcastic and enjoy witty exchange.
- I enjoy trying new things. Recently I started kayaking with my dog (he is not very helpful but he enjoys it very much).
- I like my alone time. However, I’m not a hermit who saves his pee in jars...nor is “alone time” a code for spending this time honing my wizardry skills in World of Warcraft.
- I vacillate between being responsible with my finances and splurging on toys, trips or just good times

My date:
- You want to share your secrets with me....and mine with you. Equally so, you want to share your dreams and fears.
- You have your own interests....but you will invite me to participate...and won’t be mad if I decline.
- You enjoy exploring our differences as much as our similarities.
- You will surprise me from time to time. I don’t mean this in a jump-out-of-the-bushes at me sort of way...but other than that, I hope you can figure this out without any prompting.
- You also enjoy your alone time....but also sans pee filled jars or W.o.W.
- You let me act like myself and you tell me that I am enough. This sounds simple, but this one above all others has proven to be the most elusive. Well...maybe the baby name is the most elusive, but this is a close second.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a challenging and enjoyable job, but it does not define me...and I am looking for ways to work less and live more. So, I try to travel more, enjoy time with my dog and my friends. Always picking up a new hobby (and usually dropping an old one).
I’m really good at
- making people wonder if I am being serious or am I joking?
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't have a social filter. That is to say, if I think something is interesting or funny, I tend to say it. These tend to be viewed as inappropriate or crass by some people. Clearly I know when to keep my mouth shut about such things, but I really am not a fan of self-censorship and really tend to just let things fly out and accept the consequences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read something on my kindle almost every night, but usually some easy reading series, although I do get into deeper stuff too . Favorite author is Tom Robbins. Not TONY Robbins.

Movies: I watch the popular stuff and of course I have seen the latest Star Wars, but finding an independent film (in Hillcrest theater or online) is what I really enjoy. And as an Easter Egg for ya, I have an IMDB page of my own because I have an Associate Producer credit for a documentary about one of my favorite bands...can you find me?

Music: anything except Country. Having said that, if we click on all levels except that you adore Country...then we can revisit this topic.

Food: The spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Squatty Potty
Rambo (my dog)
Comfy bedding
Crystal Hot Sauce (a.k.a. Louisiana's Pure Hot Sauce)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Puppy-Monkey-Baby, ever since the Super Bowl.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home or out. It really depends on the type of week and what Saturday has in store for me. To be clear, when I am dating someone I tend to go out more....but when I am not dating I am quite happy to be at home alone reading or watching the idiot box.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have stolen money from every woman that I've ever dated. But that's all behind me now. I promise.
You should message me if
You want a genuine guy. I am exactly what I pretend to be. Also, if you are taller than me and you like to wear heals and tower over you man, then DEFINITELY message me. If you are not taller than me, just ignore that last line.