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44 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
- I am sarcastic and enjoy witty exchange.
- I enjoy trying new things. Recent endeavors include getting my SCUBA certification(s), traveling alone to Honduras, Peru, Thailand, France, Cambodia.
- I like my alone time. However, I’m not a hermit who saves his pee in jars...nor is “alone time” a code for spending this time honing my wizardry skills in World of Warcraft.
- I vacillate between being responsible with my finances and splurging on toys, trips or just good times
- I want long as they are perfectly behaved and they will grow up to earn enough money to take care of me when I’m old...but I’m in no rush to have them. We can wait until next year...just practice for now.
- I enjoy cooking and getting my domestic on, but I live alone and HATE eating I don’t bang the pots and pans often.

My date:
- You want to share your secrets with me....and mine with you. Equally so, you want to share your dreams and fears.
- You have your own interests....but you will invite me to participate...and won’t be mad if I decline.
- You enjoy exploring our differences as much as our similarities.
- You are willing to name our first born child “Trogdor” works equally well for a boy or a girl.
- You will surprise me from time to time. I don’t mean this in a jump-out-of-the-bushes at me sort of way...but other than that, I hope you can figure this out without any prompting.
- You also enjoy your alone time....but also sans pee filled jars or W.o.W.
- You let me act like myself and you tell me that I am enough. This sounds simple, but this one above all others has proven to be the most elusive. Well...maybe the baby name is the most elusive, but this is a close second.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently back from 3 weeks in Cambodia, so the "fun" part of my life is simply pondering where to go next year.
I’m really good at
A few off the top of my head:

- Cooking....but I am poor at portion control, so I can't cook for 1 and I HATE leftovers. (this is where you come in handy)

- Making my dog happy. This is kind of cheating on the answer because making my dog happy is really simple.

- Staying active with Yoga, scuba, hiking and whatnot. It is probably significant that none of these activities are really Olympic-style sports. I like to be active, but the whole "competitive" thing is not for me. Thus I gravitate towards things which have no score or whatever. Now I feel like I've gone too far and I'm being hyper defensive and I really should have just ended this point a long time ago. Disregard most of this.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't have a social filter. That is to say, if I think something is interesting or funny, I tend to say it. These tend to be viewed as inappropriate or crass by some people. Clearly I know when to keep my mouth shut about such things, but I really am not a fan of self-censorship and really tend to just let things fly out and accept the consequences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Since the Walking Dead is on summer break, I am reading a lot of ZA books. That is "Zombie Apocalypse" for those uninitiated. Keeping it classy.

Movies: Favorite of all times: RIZE!

Music: I go through phases. Currently really into Jazz...I think it came because I started watching Treme. Or, maybe I started watching Treme because I was getting into Jazz.

Food: The spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Rambo (my dog)
comfy bedding
Crystal Hot Sauce (a.k.a. Louisiana's Pure Hot Sauce)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
if I should recycle more. I mean, I understand that we only have 1 planet and we need to conserve our precious resources. But on the other hand, I have taken enough road-trips to know that we have plenty of space for landfill, most of Iowa could be used as a trash dump and I don't think many people would care.
On a typical Friday night I am
probably out with friends. We might be out doing unique things (like this coming Friday when we are going to LA to see RadioLab live on stage) or just being mundane and going to a movie (like this past Friday when we went and saw the new THOR movie for Christ sake). Or if it was a tough week, I may be home catching up on the best that Hulu has to offer.

In short, there is no "typical".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently got into an argument with a friend-of-a-friend on Facebook over how many spaces come after a period. I am firmly in the side of the 2-space rule.

(side note: I un-friended the person on Facebook who argued on for a single-space following a period. She is just wrong and I will not have this sort of negative energy in my life)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You use the 2-space rule following your periods. Also, you do NOT have a pic of yourself on potato-chip-rock. Nothing against rocks or hiking....I just think it is over done.

But seriously, I am trying to not put too many rules on my just hit me up and maybe we will click.