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44 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
- I am sarcastic and enjoy witty exchange.
- I enjoy trying new things. Recently I started kayaking with my dog (he is not very helpful but he enjoys it very much).
- I like my alone time. However, I’m not a hermit who saves his pee in jars...nor is “alone time” a code for spending this time honing my wizardry skills in World of Warcraft.
- I vacillate between being responsible with my finances and splurging on toys, trips or just good times

My date:
- You want to share your secrets with me....and mine with you. Equally so, you want to share your dreams and fears.
- You have your own interests....but you will invite me to participate...and won’t be mad if I decline.
- You enjoy exploring our differences as much as our similarities.
- You are willing to name our first born child “Trogdor” works equally well for a boy or a girl.
- You will surprise me from time to time. I don’t mean this in a jump-out-of-the-bushes at me sort of way...but other than that, I hope you can figure this out without any prompting.
- You also enjoy your alone time....but also sans pee filled jars or W.o.W.
- You let me act like myself and you tell me that I am enough. This sounds simple, but this one above all others has proven to be the most elusive. Well...maybe the baby name is the most elusive, but this is a close second.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a good job but not sure what will be the next move to advance my career....maybe change companies, win the lotto, start consulting, or something unforeseen. But that is just the 9-to-5 part of my life anyway and I try to "work to live". So, I try to travel more, enjoy time with my dog and my friends. Always picking up a new hobby (and usually dropping an old one).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- making people wonder if I am being serious or am I joking?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't have a social filter. That is to say, if I think something is interesting or funny, I tend to say it. These tend to be viewed as inappropriate or crass by some people. Clearly I know when to keep my mouth shut about such things, but I really am not a fan of self-censorship and really tend to just let things fly out and accept the consequences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I have about 6 half-read books on my kindle, but I'm always taking more suggestions. Favorite author is Tom Robbins. Not TONY Robbins.

Movies: Not much for the Marvel comic book stuff that keeps coming out lately (a female friend dragged me to Thore), but I do like the mainstream. But finding an independent film (in Hillcrest theater or online) is what I really enjoy. And as an Easter Egg for ya, I have an IMDB page of my own because I have an Associate Producer credit for a documentary about one of my favorite bands...can you find me?

Music: anything except Country. Having said that, if we click on all levels except that you adore Country...then we can revisit this topic.

Food: The spicier the better.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Squatty Potty
Rambo (my dog)
Comfy bedding
Crystal Hot Sauce (a.k.a. Louisiana's Pure Hot Sauce)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what are my survival chances in the zombie apocalypse? Do I want to survive? I think it all depends on if they are fast-zombies or slow-zombies. Time will tell!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home or out. It really depends on the type of week and what Saturday has in store for me. To be clear, when I am dating someone I tend to go out more....but when I am not dating I am quite happy to be at home alone reading or watching the idiot box.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have stolen money from every woman that I've ever dated. But that's all behind me now. I promise.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to meet a man who will NOT send you dick-pics. I said "NOT".

Honestly, I have some female friends on OKC and the kind of tools that they meet on here makes me wonder how on earth am I still single if those dick-pic-sending-dorks are my "competition". So, enter the dick-pic-free-zone and hit me up.