Just for future reference ladies there isn't an online knight in shinning armor that's going to magically send you the message of your dreams. I get it you have to have a barrier up for creeps and the losers out there, but if you're going to make a profile take it seriously. Not this stuff about my most private thing I'm willing to admit is being on this site. Or my friends are doing it for me. Or how about the my friends suggested it for me. Well then your heart wasn't really in it in the first place so don't waste mine or your time.
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