Poly-Faun wordsmith, socialist, learning through movement.
Traveler, Ethical Slut, cycling the world, walking the clouds, having adventures....
My childhood hero was Snuffkin from The Moomins. He still is.
I live with my lovely partner in Oxford. We're always seeking new adventures, both together and separately. I don't take myself to seriously, though have been known to be in tents.
I've had more addresses than years.
Developing through interactions with humans, cats, experiences, drugs, and the nature of the weirdness that opens in unexpected directions to divert my path again, and to deposit me in a new world again. Currently this new world involves a wife, an apartment, two new jobs, a new city, new friends, and new lovers.... for which I'm incredibly grateful.
I want to live in a treehouse, a Hobbithole, a roundhouse or a shack. I try to make ethical choices. I cycle everywhere. I like to make my own stuff, to eat fermented foods, to stargaze by open fires in the mountains with lovers. I love to drink good whiskey, to eat good, nourishing food, to talk utter tripe.
Hetero-flexible. Happy to play with men, interested in more.
Generally a top, though most willing to be elsewhere, rather good with a riding crop, and tying knots in hair. Fascinated by knots and ropes, sensuous webs of jute, love to leave you hanging there, begging, wet, and cute. I groan to string you up all intricate, to stroke you, spank you red, to take my time teasing, tweesing, tilling out your gasping breath. Your pleasure my gift that s nurtured, sweeping your form as it writhes, trapped within gorgeousness, curved, soft, and lithe.
I might just stand here and appreciate you ....while you writhe...Nomnomnomnom.
I am a: Quirky, English, Neo-gentleman, bright eyed, itinerant, foolish, silly and sarcastic. Lover of nature, the universe, women, dew, music, autumn leaves, crisp mornings, warm nights, skin, cuddles, lust, music, wine, song, poems, feasts.
A cuddlewhore, Interested in alternate, simple living, organic farming, structure building (yurts, berbers, tipis, benders, Earthships, roundhouses). home cooking, baking, fermenting, Linux, and generally being future-compatible.
Polyamorous by nature. Ethically not monogamous. Interested in meaningful, open, and honest relationships with others. Freedom is the key,variety is the spice of life. I have a wonderful partner, but there's always room for more love. We are both very open and safe, and we believe that it's better to have loving and real relationships with more than one person at a time.
Believes in the removal of cars from cities, a scientific utopia, an end to bigotry - the creation of a new world - a movement away from outdated values and systems, myths such as religion, capitalism, 'democracy'.
Interested in life-long learning, neuro-plasticity, signs and signals, connections, creativity, wearing hearts on sleeves, hats on heads, living with passion, saving the world, vivaring the revolooshun, 'n'all that.
Enjoys reading, writing, thinking, talking, walking and baulking at the state of it all
Midnight kissing, dancefloor shizzing, singing, giggling and attention gripping, watching, waiting, cogitating, loving, holding, cinema over bowling
Long walks and adventures, rutting in heather, smiles and laughter, friendship and lather, penknives, gadgets, the stars and the planets, happy every afters, romantic palaver
Tears and cuddles, wizards and muggles, fantasy, fiction, yoghurt with bits in, women with long hair in flat shoes and swimwear, tonguing, contractions, the embrace of your actions, aliens and molecules, quantum and flux, transitory changes - and all that hippy stuff
Sparkling eyes, cocktails and pine, those moments with people when we don't notice time, long journeys and meetings, reliance and trust, women who ride bicycles and drink cider what's ruff
Beats, not bombs, music and love, equality and respect, education and trust, peanut butter with banana, avocado and humus, health and well being, wisdom and fitness, her breathless glances when sucking my...
Verdant greenery, dewy soil, barefoot dancing, olive oil, the harlequin's jig of humanizing mirth, unspoken male bonding - rainy days around the hearth, umbrellas, tents, waterproofs, Zen, I could stop writing this now, well, I will, I'll just stop then.
#Beginrant# I think that we are programmed by our turbulent and crashing society in many ways. We expect that it is normal, and important to spend the majority of our time working, for our entire adult life - often in an unsatisfying job that does not stimulate us as individuals. We are taught that people with 'alternative' modes of religion/clothing/working ethics/worldviews/sexual orientations etc. are freaks, and need to be ignored and marginalised. We are expected to believe that the current financial crisis will abate, and that everything will be rosy again, that it was rosy before. Religion, Disney, and Hollywood, have taught us that monogamy, and usually heteronormative monogamy, is the only acceptable form of sexual relationship. #endrant#
I believe that this, like most of things that we're expected to believe, is a load of dingo's kidneys.
Plurality is such a pleasure. :)