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30 Bristol, UK Man


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  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 26, 2014
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Currently staying at a place called Embercombe just outside Exeter for a couple of months. I'm up for meeting locals who want to show me the sights!

Hi there! I'm not very good at structuring my thoughts in coherant ways, so here's a list of things about me in no particular order.

I'm pretty rubbish at internet communication, I'd much rather get to know people face to face. So if you think my profile looks interesting maybe we can meet for coffee (or tea, or cake) and get to know each other that way.

I'm an artist, working with folklore and stories through the power of beautiful needle felted things. I've got my first solo show in October so I'm spending a lot of time on that at the moment.

I think a lot about gender, what it means and how I and others relate to it. I would also consider myself a feminist. I'm also transgender (female to male), and I had a chest reconstruction op at the start of the year.

I love to dance and I'm not self concious about it. Unfortunately it's rare that I find a club I like.

I live in a treehouse (well, actually I hav a loft bedroom that is green with lots of wood trimmings, but it still counts dammit!)

I smile a lot.

As well as being a nice, respctful guy, I'm also a right randy sod with a big side helping of kink. I'm discovering more and more how much pleasure I can get from pain, and it's quite an exciting adventure!

I have done shamanic training and am into paganism and earth spirituality and the like. These things have quite a strong affect on how I view the world. I'm involved with Queer Pagan Camp. I've also been getting interested in tantra and tantric BDSM. Despite all this I often still get annoyed by new-agers.

I don't take myself too seriously.

I love going camping and walking in woods and the like.

I have trained as a massage therapist, though I don't practice at the moment.

I think hugs are great.

I like people who are enthusiastic, passionate, ceative, funny and don't take life to seriously. For people I'm dating, I like people who are also filthy buggers.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working as an artist, with my first solo show in October!
I’m really good at
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Making things, being creative and inventive artistically

Being enthusiastic.

Giving hugs!

Massage (I trained as a massage therapist and it was damn good training)

Staying calm and reasonable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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First thing would probably be my height, as I'm pretty short. Second would be my ginger beard (people are often quite impressed by it). Third, I would say my eyes, just because I get a lot of comments about them!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read a lot of folklore, I'm particularly into stories from Scandinavia. I'm also a bit obsessed with Neil Gaiman.

Movies: Favorites include I Heart Huckabees, Brazil, llabyrinth and Hedwig and the angry inch (probably my favorite)

Food: I'm not fussy but I love Japanese and Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My studio and felting needles (the magic wands I use to manifest things)

Beautiful things

The woods


I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of reality, the nature of gender, the nature of sexuality, how fucked up the world is and how it could be better, food, sex, pretty/useful things I can make.

I also just started researching a project about the interplay between mythology and lived experience of trans people, so I'm thinking about that quite a lot
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Britan's got Talent is a bit of a guilty pleasure of mine (though not the singers, they're boring)
You should message me if
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If you contain or enjoy that magic combination of geeky, arty, hippy and kinky. Also if you have a thing for short hairy men and ginger beards.

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