Contrary to popular belief and due to the stupidity that I have witnessed here by most men, not ALL guys on here are unstable, unsuccessful, lacking drive, come with baggage or are in a financial drought, seriously.
I'm interested in meeting a cute gal that can hold a coherent conversation while enjoying a couple of stiff drinks or some coffee. She should enjoy life, laughing, being respected, taken care of and having a good time.
You will never be able to talk about the experiences and memories that you never had, so live it up.