I tend to live my life a bit contrary to people here, but I have a job that is EXTREMELY rewarding (I used to teach social studies at an alternative high school, now I teach at the "big" or "regular" high school) and rather mainstream. I keep very busy between home/family (my son is a teenager and always has something going on!) and school stuff, but would love to find someone who could share in our lives and us in theirs. I don't need someone with all the same interests, but some of the same would be nice. Nor do I need for someone to live here as long as they are willing to try to make a long-distance thing work long enough to see if a move should occur.
Also, if you are overweight and not ACTIVELY working on changing that; are a "cowboy" with real "cowboy" ways and beliefs; drink more than 2 drinks per day; do drugs of any kind; are closed-minded or are still married - I am sooooo NOT your girl. I wish you all the best, but please don't waste my time or yours...
I am honest, open-minded, and independent.