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39 M Broken Arrow, OK

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:17pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Friends, family, and faith got me where I am, and that's a good place in life! I'm not perfect, but who is? I love a good story, whether it's in a song, a book, or a movie but, in most cases I prefer the written word. I would never be able to live without art, and always have music playing in the background... I work for a not-for-profit organization helping the homeless and those who struggle with mental illness. I love my two Bengal cats, and am falling in love with my faith in a new way every day. There's an entire multi-volume autobiography I could write here... better explored through conversation, yeah? ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am enjoying life, learning to get back to basics, and am looking forward to what the 'morrow may bring. I don't make a TON of money, but I LOVE what I do because I can see the fruits of my labor in the lives of the people we reach. I fit other things in from time to time, like art, writing, and more...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being sarcastic, seeing artistic value in everyday things, guessing the ending of stories before the answers are revealed, and finding the simple things to enjoy while getting the most out of the time I have in the day... I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and believe chivalry is not dead. Every man should strive to treat their relationships "Like a Sir." I try to find the funny, fantastic, and fire in everything I encounter... no event in life should go to waste!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I do not really conform to the norm and I do my own thing... The goatee, piercings, and ink usually come up in conversation as well. Typical "judging a book by its cover" mentality... then again, some folks dig 'em, so there's that. =P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Bible, any books about fringe topics and how they relate to my faith, I am still working on completing my Star Wars library (yes, I am a bit of a geek)... I used to own several thousand books, but have sold much of that library due to space and financial need a few years ago. Neil Gaiman, Piers Anthony, Lloyd Alexander, Fred Saberhagen, Michael Moorcock, Timothy Zahn, Poe, Dante, Shakespeare, Tosca Lee, Eric Nylund, Drew Karpyshyn, Ted Dekker... honestly, this list could hit the maximum word-count for this section.

My "Star Wars" movie was Tron, and when I was younger I worked in movie theaters, so there's no way to really pick a short list. If it has an excellent script, and actors I enjoy, I'll give it a chance. Some of my staple movies are Lord of the Rings series(extended versions), What Dreams May Come, K-Pax, Ninth Gate, Pirates of the Caribbean series... yeah, another endless list.

When it comes to music, I enjoy everything except old country, rap, most R&B, and am very picky when it comes to opera. I could listen to vocal trance, classical, industrial, or hardcore metal all day long but I would say my "playlist" consists mostly of bands like RED, Skillet, Thousand Foot Krutch, Demon Hunter, Nine Lashes, The Letter Black, Need to Breathe, Hillsong, Killswitch Engage, Frontline Assembly, Depeche Mode, The Cure, and many, many others.

When it comes to TV, I love paranormal shows (Ghost Mine is one of my current favorites as well as Ghost Adventures and Dead Files), Dr Who, Stargate SG1/Atlantis/Destiny, Duck Dynasty, CSI, Blacklist, Revolution, 24, Sons of Anarchy, UFC, Big Bang Theory, Babylon 5, Farscape, Firefly, Supernatural, Blacklist, Marvel: Agents of Shield, and a random smattering of other shows.

Food... If it's cooked well, looks wonderful, and is healthy, I'm all about it. I really dig me some Japanese Hibachi/Steak House (Osaka), Tex-Mex (Los Cabos), Irish/Englsih Pub (Baker Street/McNellies) and German (Fassler Hall and of course Siegi's is amazing!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Faith, Family, Art in its' many forms, Liberty, Opportunity, and Individual Expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Honestly, my mind wanders and I could spend time in thought about anything at any given time. After having a random thought about something, I could have a conversation or debate about it, and then go sit down and write a paper about it... I love intellectual conversation and debate (as long as it stays friendly... conflict is just obnoxious). I also spend a lot of time daydreaming about things I wish I could do if I had more time or resources... frustrating. :\
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting from the week, digging into a book, enjoying a night out, spending time in conversation with friends... anything could happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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We can talk about this later...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are tired of drama, see God as your best friend and value your Faith, and are looking for the best out of life (but don't require the "best" to cost an arm and a leg) and are tired of drama... ;)