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28 Santa Monica, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Today – 8:34am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm compassionate, lighthearted, & enthusiastic. To live is an incredible opportunity, so I strive to enjoy it. I love to meet new people, discover what makes them tick, and learn from them whatever I can.
What I’m doing with my life
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I meditate and exercise a few times a week. I balance this out by spending Sunday drinking mimosas and playing video games with my cat. (... The cat doesn't play video games. She naps in the corner.)

I manage and coach software development teams for a video game company in Santa Monica. I mediate difficult conversations, look for learning opportunities, and encourage open communication. I'm grateful to have a job I truly enjoy.

I'm also creating a syllabus for a hip-hop history and appreciation class. I have no students, nor a venue.

I love eating KBBQ and ramen. I just moved onto Sawtelle blvd, which has significantly increased the amount of noodles I eat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating free cheese at Bristol Farms.

Losing half my Sunday at the coffee shop.

My Bob Ross impression.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I laugh like a supervillain.
(I wish I were a supervillain. A volcano lair, henchmen, nice suits, sharp wit... I don't see any downsides...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Every meal can (and should) be breakfast; the position of the Sun can't tell me what to eat.

Scott Pilgrim, The Design of Everyday Things, Bukowski

Last Action Hero, Back to the Future 3, Set It Off

Home Movies, It's Always Sunny, Cosmos

Binary Star, MF DOOM, The Roots, Black Star
Anamanaguchi, Daft Punk, Electric Guest, Air, Girl Talk, Creedence, Miles Davis, & Freddie Redd
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Outdoors, my cat, beds so large I can sleep diagonally, computer, pizza, shitty puns
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Wait...Are we supposed to be taking this seriously? I haven't been taking this seriously the whole time... Aw fuck, you guys were being serious?!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I love to check out the artwalk downtown, weird dive bars, and terrible stand up acts.

Saturday afternoon is more interesting:
Museums, farmer's markets, Runyon Canyon, arcades in Little Tokyo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I wonder if I've tricked all the people in my life. They seem to think I'm well put together, intelligent, and funny. The truth is that I have my shit together, but I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing. I just do what feels right.

If someone asks me if I can do something I say "yes" without a second thought. I can always figure it out later.

I knit better when I'm drunk. (Not a euphemism)
You should message me if
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You want to play pinball (still not a euphemism), you like pizza and high-fives (maybe a euphemism?), you think movies on the couch is always a valid option, you're down to run a half-marathon so long as we drink a beer afterwards.

You like brunch. Isn't brunch the best?