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34 Elk Grove, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Pacific Islander, Other
Relationship Type
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I struggled with what to say in this box. This box where you're supposed to list things about yourself that are positive and attractive. The mere thought of doing that makes me uncomfortable. What can I say to win your attention? Should I talk about how much at this point in my life I care about finding someone who's compatible? Who I can maybe think about spending the next chunk of my existence with? Who can look past all of my physical imperfections and look deep into the soul of my complicated, jaded, passive aggressive, and somewhat unserious self? It's seemingly impossible- I know- but perhaps here on an app I could MAYBE find someone to be my friend and possibly become someone that I care for more than myself.

Let's be honest- I'm am who I am. Loving, funny and compassionate. complicated but simple. Lost but dead set on my dreams. Hardened from mistakes I've made. I'm afraid of a lot of things concerning love but I've recently realized that I'm ready to love again. I'm ready to take that risk of having my heart ripped open- for a chance to be happy.

I'm a poet of sorts, a musician and gambler by profession. I have a beautiful 9 year old daughter who means more to me than anything. I have scars like everyone does- but they're freshly healed. I try my best to be a good father, person, friend, confidante, ally, companion, and sidekick.

Once you get to know me I'm wide open, but I'm very shy at first. I may come off as intimidating because of my appearance and tattoos but I'm basically a teddy bear.

I love laughing and cooking. I rarely drink. I smoke trees for medicinal purposes.

Thanks for reading this. I just realized that I got a little sappy and wordy but shiiiit- at least I filled out this box. Holler at me and let's be friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm on a path less traveled for sure. I chase my dreams daily. I make music and play shows for a living. I also play poker professionally. #blacksheep
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people, cracking jokes, making dinner, loving my friends...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hope it isn't intimidation, but it's probably my swagger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Superfudge by Judy Blume
The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell

Honestly not a movie guy per say. You'd gasp at the movies I HAVEN'T seen- let's say that.

I do watch tv.

I'm into ALL sorts of food: particularly sushi, Mexican, and Italian. Anything tasty. I don't eat liver but will eat sweetbreads and lengua.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter.
A sauce pan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My daughter, my next move, my next rhyme, injustice, inequality, how lucky and blessed I am, jokes, cards... And dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my sanctuary making music with my friends, posted at the house relaxing or taking money from my friends at the poker table.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I just want to sing and I still watch wrestling. Please don't judge me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a wonderful, bright, understanding woman who won't get mad at me if I want to watch a Lakers game... Just kidding.

You're kind. Most of all.