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My self-summary Propose an edit

Compared to a frat boy, I am quiet and gentle, but not awkward. I'm happiest with "jovial banter", but don't just talk to hear myself. I prefer gatherings of friends and families, but not into bars or concerts. I'm a pretty good cook. Inside, I'm quite Bohemian.

I'm not a gym rat, nor am I constantly biking, running, kayaking, scuba diving, etc. I'm somewhere between "fit" and "athletic" and can go backpacking in the mountains for a week. I play tennis (but don't keep score) and enjoy hiking, if the scenery is amazing.

I'm not a snob, but am fairly well-read and can talk to almost everyone about their job or hobby in more depth than most. I appreciate (but do not worship) intelligent, educated people. I also respect those whose depth of knowledge is less academic (farmers, self taught naturalists, artists, grease monkeys, etc.)

I'm often drawn to strong "life of the party" personalities (but not loud ones). I've also dated more "laid back" cuties, who had some other captivating aspects. Whether it's music, movies or female companions, I most appreciate finding quality that others don't know about.

I'm neither a bad-boy biker, nor an effeminate momma's boy. I can protect you if you need it and won't embarrass you at your firm's Christmas party.

I can troubleshoot most car problems, and fix many of them (but prefer to let the pros do it these days).

I believe in seeking out wise people, and have benefited from several.

NOTE: I currently live near Dallas, but intend to move within the year, probably to the Boston area. (I've really become interested in colonial/revolution history lately.)

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

What I'm doing right now isn't very interesting, but what I'm about to do is. I decided quite early to live my life in two stages. The first stage was to build up the financial means for the second stage, and I've been lucky enough to be able to follow that plan. I think I should say, however, that I'm not a natural plan-everything-out-in-advance/work-aholic, and maintaining the discipline to reach the goal wasn't easy. I've had several short and medium length relationships and am on good terms with almost all, but my career has been a jealous mistress and I think I've probably dated outside my "forever love" zone. Now I hope to spend many years being entirely myself, for better or worse. I intend to travel (or move from place to place) a great deal for the next few years. I'll probably move first to some place like Boston or DC or Philly, and travel for about 3 months each year, unless I find a good reason to move somewhere else. I speak a little German, but want to learn some other languages. I thrive on new experiences and discoveries. I'll be immersing myself in some old interests, and some new ones. I'll be taking college classes just for fun, mostly languages, maybe some art and history. I am ready to commit to a "forever love", but am ok if it takes some time to find her. The "search" will be fun!

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Day trading. Home cooking. Finding different ways of looking at things. Asking the important question. Squeezing fun out of Saturdays. Cultivating a few, close friendships. Balancing kitchen tools on my nose. Finding your most ticklish area(s). Forgetting to lock the door, or not remembering my license number. Providing a napping place for furry things. Identifying birds. And apparently, wrecking vehicles.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My smile, I guess. Most seem surprised that I'm not into sports or sports cars or sports bars. I look a lot younger than I am (if you don't look *too* close) :)

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Novelty, hope, purpose, R&R, income, ?you?

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

The amazing women I've known.
Whether I'll survive retirement and adjust to the new freedoms.
Where I want to live next, what kinds of college classes to take.
Will I feel comfortable being 40 years old and taking classes?

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Comatose from the week.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

A long time ago (in college), I was a disgusting, shallow person for half a year.

Also, I haven't voted forever. I know that's "un-American", but every time that someone that I almost voted for wins, I didn't like them after they were in office. We just aren't provided with an accurate picture during campaigns.

I have a hard time breaking off relationships. I tend to let them go longer than I should, because I don't trust first (or fourth) impressions. One of my really good relationships didn't initially seem promising, so I like to make sure before I give up on someone.

The "Less Kinky" icon must be 'cuz I'm not into role-playing and don't have any bizarre fetishes. Otherwise, most anything (involving a maximum foot count of four) goes.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are a (mostly) secure-with-yourself, independent woman who is passionate about something interesting. You have "favorite discoveries" to share. You should have your own life and are comfortable letting others have "me" time at regular intervals. I'm thinking about becoming a genealogist-for-hire (for fun), so digging through courthouse records and walking around in cemeteries shouldn't be a turnoff. I'm a firm believer that when traveling together, you should explore separately now and then, so you have something fresh to talk about at the end of the day. You should have interesting friends, who although busy, make time to be with you because you are worth it.

I'm not particularily interested in "stunningly beautiful" women, most I've dated never had to develop anything else of interest. The few that are both beautiful *and* have attractive personalities intimidate me. I love being around people that have come through some fire and still have some childlike joy and wonder, and have an inner purpose, march to their own drumbeat. Kids are ok, and they are a good barometer to what you're all about. Where you live doesn't matter too much. You should have a college or university nearby, and a good fresh foods grocery. It's probably better if you don't live near DFW, I'd like to live somewhere else next.

PLEASE NOTE!! Unless I see a profile that really gets my heart pumpin', I probably won't initiate contact. If I do write, I try to make it relevant and personal, and I don't have the time to do that with everyone to whom I'd ordinarily say "hi". So if you see I've stalked you and you like my profile, go ahead and let me know, I won't think you're overly forward.

If you send me a message and your profile is vague, please tell me something about yourself (that isn't based on pictures), I appreciate a conversation starter :)

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