Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***adding a couple+ things due to recent conversations...
Not really into polyamorous or pansexual relationships.
I believe in seeing the person beneath the skin, but I also believe
a healthy relationship requires physical attraction. Having said
that, I have been totally enamored of people where others may say
"why?", and not attracted to people where others may say "wow!".
However, a relationship without real attraction becomes a
semi-platonic friendship where you share a bed. Please don't
hesitate to contact me if you feel we'd be a good match, but also
please don't be offended if I am not similarly inclined.
Also; I have never had the blessing of having children, and it is
something that weighs heavily on my mind since I had thought I
would. I don't know that I am in a place that it's an option, but,
if it is not even open for a discussion, we are probably not a good
fit. So...moving on...
I am an intelligent, t-shirt and jeans (but not sloppy, and do own
a suit or two) half artsy/half conservative type guy. Though in my
40's, I generally find myself most comfortable with people younger
than me, or my age but with a young attitude. I have no children,
and do find myself in bars and clubs a fair amount (band type
rather than DJ type, and normally because I am or friends are
performing). I am a semi-professional regionally-performing
musician, but maintain a full time job in conjunction.
I have been working at becoming a proficient cook. I often convince
myself I could take Master Chef...and then I watch Master Chef, and
change my opinion...
Looking for someone who knows the value of a true partnership; how
to team up and face the hard times so we can then lay back and
enjoy the good times. Someone open minded and forward thinking,
while still maintaining some old school values.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
AV consultant during the day and semi-pro regionally touring
musician on nights and weekends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving people good advice that I seem to rarely follow myself,
music and thinking about too many things at once.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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IZombie, Walking Dead, Arrow, Under the Dome, The Big Bang Theory,
various documentaries/Nat Geo type shows that catch my eye on
Netflix, That Metal Show, Arrested Development.
Movies: This one is tough. I would be changing my answer every
other day, so I will just say I like everything from Action to
Drama to Independent to Horror to Chick Flicks...just depends on
mood, and how well it is done.
Music: Mostly rock's various genres, with a tendency toward the
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Realistically, air, food, water and shelter. I guess you were
asking what I would prefer not to do without? No particular
*My family and friends.
*Time arguing with my nieces over which Teenage Mutant Ninja
Turtles show/movie is the most valid. They are wrong, but refuse to
*My skills in music and ability to make it.
*My day job, which gives me flexibility and stability
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What don't I spend time thinking about? My brain goes off on its
own quite often. I just ask that it check in from time to time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either performing in or out of town, or at home catching up on
things. When not buried, I will usually try to go see any friends
performing, or, if really lucky, just hang out with friends at a
bar & grill from happy hour on.
You should message me if
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