Not really into polyamorous or pansexual relationships.
I believe in seeing the person beneath the skin, but I also believe a healthy relationship requires physical attraction. Having said that, I have been totally enamored of people where others may say "why?", and not attracted to people where others may say "wow!". However, a relationship without real attraction becomes a semi-platonic friendship where you share a bed. Please don't hesitate to contact me if you feel we'd be a good match, but also please don't be offended if I am not similarly inclined.
Also; I have never had the blessing of having children, and it is something that weighs on my mind since I had thought I would. I don't know that I am in a place that it's an option, so, not a "deal breaker", but, if it is not even open for discussion, we are possibly not a good fit. ...moving on...
I am an intelligent, t-shirt and jeans (but not sloppy, and do own a suit or two) half artsy/half conservative type guy. Though in my 40's, I generally find myself most comfortable with people younger than me, or my age but with a young attitude. I have no children, and do find myself in bars and clubs a fair amount (band type rather than DJ type, and normally because I am or friends are performing). I am a semi-professional regionally-performing musician, but maintain a full time job in conjunction.
I have been working at becoming a proficient cook. I often convince myself I could take Master Chef...and then I watch Master Chef, and change my opinion...
Looking for someone who knows the value of a true partnership; how to team up and face the hard times so we can then lay back and enjoy the good times. Someone open minded and forward thinking, while still maintaining some old school values.
Movies: This one is tough. I would be changing my answer every other day, so I will just say I like everything from Action to Drama to Independent to Horror to Chick Flicks...just depends on mood, and how well it is done.
Music: Mostly rock's various genres, with a tendency toward the harder edged.
*My family and friends.
*My skills in music and ability to make it.
*My day job, which gives me flexibility and stability