Yeah...It's true on both sides...get over it.
I am an intelligent, t-shirt and jeans (but not sloppy, and do own a suit or two) half artsy/half conservative type guy. Though in my 40's, I generally find myself most comfortable with people younger than me, or my age but with a young attitude. I have no children, and do find myself in bars and clubs a fair amount (band type rather than DJ type, and normally because I am or friends are performing). I am a semi-professional regionally-performing musician, but maintain a full time job in conjunction.
I have been working at becoming a proficient cook. I often convince myself I could take Master Chef...and then I watch Master Chef, and change my opinion...
Looking for someone who knows the value of a true partnership; how to team up and face the hard times so we can then lay back and enjoy the good times. Someone open minded and forward thinking, while still maintaining some old school values.