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45 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:13pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I moved from NYC about 10 years ago and consider it my country of origin. This east/west exposure has influenced me in unexpected ways. I'm bookish and know the secret death grip. I've lived in London, Athens (Greece) and Portland but San Francsico is my home. I'm patient with honest people and all "New Yorker" with everyone else. I'm shy but I love a good flirt. I have lots of ideas but am a man of few words. I'm smart yet the joke's on me, a good listener yet easily bored, and sometimes snarky and mostly earnest. I know that karma works and yet I did that thing (dang it!). I want to roll in money and save the world from it. I want to find nobility and beat ugliness at its own game. And I want a partner with whom I can share everything, good and bad.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working on my documentary, recording all kinds of sounds and turning them into other sounds, drinking lots of coffee after staying up way too late, eating well, laughing a lot, and trying to do a little better with everything each time.
I’m really good at
I'm the best at planning and executing that secret getaway weekend that revolves around exploring, cocktails, hikes to nowhere, musty bookstores, weird restaurants, and long, lazy mornings in bed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love movies. I watch them, make them, talk about them, think about them, dream about them.... Movies I've seen in the last few months or so include 'Battleship Potemkin' (brilliant), the latest Wes Anderson (pretty good), Tarkovsky's 'Stalker' (unbelievable!), 'Lawrence of Arabia' for the one millionth time (one of the best!) and Fast and Furious 6 (take a guess).

Recent reads include, Franzen's Freedom, The Book of Five Rings, and a gigantic book about Shinto written in the 60's. Just finished Vonnegut and T.E.Lawrence and just started a book on ultra-runners. I'll read anything and everything that pushes back.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Raw fish
Keeping healthy
The people in my life
The perfect cocktail
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays usually revolve around food. Sometimes restaurants with friends, sometimes late night snacks after aikido practice. And since I freelance, Friday is sometimes Monday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm currently shopping for a piano so I can learn to play Debussy's Clair de Lune.
After that I'll open the mic for requests.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if sing in the shower, snap a good photo, leave a big tip, enjoy a good bedtime story, eat with your hands, say what you mean, kiss with abandon, like the tall ones, are reasonably tall yourself, have a great smile and use it often, lead by example, talk with your hands, have gotten this far, might like what comes next, and were free for fun and frolic for the next hundred years or so.