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45 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:11pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Thanks for taking a look. I moved from NYC about 10 years ago and consider it my country of origin. This east/west exposure has influenced me in unexpected ways. I'm bookish and practice aikido (with great power comes a great many beatings at the dojo). I've lived in London, Athens (Greece) and Portland but San Francsico is my home. I'm patient with honest people and all "New Yorker" with everyone else. I'm shy but I love a good flirt. I'm smart yet the joke's on me, a good listener yet easily bored, and sometimes snarky and mostly earnest. I know that karma works and yet I did that thing (dang it!). And I want a partner with whom I can share all that's good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm the best at planning that secret weekend that revolves around exploring, cocktails, hikes to nowhere, musty bookstores, weird restaurants, and long, lazy mornings in bed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love movies. I watch them, make them, talk about them, think about them, dream about them.... Movies I've seen in the last few months or so include 'Battleship Potemkin' (brilliant), the latest Wes Anderson (pretty good), Tarkovsky's 'Stalker' (unbelievable!), 'Lawrence of Arabia' for the one millionth time (it's playing again at the end of this month at the Castro if you want to go) and Snowpiercer (a fever dream of weirdness).

Recent reads include, Franzen's Freedom, The Book of Five Rings, and a gigantic book about Shinto written in the 60's. Just finished Vonnegut and T.E.Lawrence and just started a book on ultra-runners.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Raw fish (its deliciousness and profit margin)
-Are we becoming a nation of fickle left/right swipers?
-The perfect cocktail
-That crazy shit Neil deGrasse Tyson says
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. sing in the shower, snap a good photo, leave a big tip, enjoy a good bedtime story, talk with your hands, say what you mean, kiss with abandon, like the tall ones, are reasonably tall yourself, have a great smile and use it often, have a giant brain, lead by example, have gotten this far, might like what comes next, and were free for the next hundred years or so.