I'm Robert. I've come to understand that it's not necessarily in vogue or socially advantageous to go around calling oneself a "nice guy", but frankly I'm about as intimidating as a baby panda bear on a beach ball.
I'm sweet. There I said it! I give a shit. Compassion is just about the most important personality trait to me. I'm essentially the antithesis to your stereotypical, emotionally unavaliable, vain and vapid: "brah", "bro", or "broski." If you're having a bad day, I'll probably buy your sloppy ass a cake and let you eat your feelings. #nojudgement
I've been on this site for a few months now and I have been incredibly picky. (Probably unfairly so) But I'm not here to waste anyone's time or play games with anyone's feelings. As corny as it sounds I try to set myself up for success. So If I'm not
feeling a connection mentally, physically, morally, comedically(?) I am NOT going to lead you on for shits and giggles. Its very possible that I have high expectations out of people but I still don't wish to compromise on them...and you shouldn't either. :)
You will like me if you prefer guys who are:
-artsy and creative..."let's paint some shit!"
-caring and giving...."would you like me to paint you some shit?"
-self sacrificing and attentive..."why don't you take the window seat" ;)
-absurd or whimsical..."babe, have you seen my gorilla suit?"
-pensive and scientific..."shhhhh, I'm doing science..."
-fit and health conscious..."yo is cookies a super food?"
I can be pretty busy sometimes. I work at an incredible restaurant in L.A, I'm a substitute personal trainer at a specialized gym for old folks, and I am a freelance photographer and videographer. I also write, shoot, and direct short films with a comedy group on weekends.
With that schedule being said. If we chat, I'm pretty much going to ask you to hang out close to immediately. If this freaks you out so be it. But I'd rather gauge whether or not I have a connection with someone over a coffee than a keyboard. call me crazy.