Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


49 Larchmont, NY Woman


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:55am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a native New York City girl tempered with a just of touch of Midwestern sensibility having lived in Chicago for close to a decade - practical and realistic yet not afraid to dream, a little quirky but endearingly so (at least that is what my friends say). In "a former life" I wrote and performed stand-up comedy.

Right and left brainer (maybe a little more left brain than right brain – but just a little).

I’m a loyal friend, usually a good listener, am reasonably health conscious (although I do have my snack attacks and occasional chocolate cravings) and am pretty fit. I enjoy ethnic dining, live bands (ranging from pop, punk, alternative to jazz and more), bodybuilding, mid-century design, an occasional poetry slam, a good cup of tea, an occasional cup of "girlie" coffee (yes, the flavored ones men will not admit to wanting to try), museums, a pick up game of volleyball and a whole lot more.

What do I seek? World peace would be nice but I shall not digress. Integrity, intelligence, kindness and humor -- these are a few of my favorite things (to rewrite a lyric from the Sound of Music). A great smile, a handsome face, soulful eyes, nice lats, and firm glutes are nice to look at (c’mon let me be honest). However, I am more concerned with your values, goals, ambitions, and how you treat others.

I appreciate the unusual man who is authentic, who by nature would more admit his fears than try to cover them up. Moreover, I admire a man who has a sense of purpose in his life, who really thinks about and acts upon how he can improve his friendships and his community. I also find intelligence and a rapier wit very sexy...

Communication and the quality of it thereof is very important to me, so if your primary form of communication is text messaging then I'm probably not the person for you. (Not to be said that text messaging doesn't have its place for quick communication but I don't see it as a worthwhile form of quality conversation).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking "the road less traveled", working with and advising start-ups, and taking a few minutes each day to reflect and being thankful for the little things many of us take for granted.

I've also been contemplating world domination but have to put that on the back burner for the time being.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating order out of chaos, cutting through b.s., and figuring out how to navigate through mass transit systems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
are my fashionable footwear, muscles, and high energy level (especially if they come across me while I'm drinking coffee).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Theodore Dreiser is one of my favorite authors, The Alchemist is one of my favorite (if not my favorite) books, and Ben and Jerry are two of my favorite men (but in moderation of course). Popcorn is one of my favorite snacks, and pretty much any ethnic cuisine made with love makes me a happy camper. Oops, I almost forgot to mention that This is Spinal Tap is one of my favorite movies (the soundtrack alone is fan-freaking-tastic). Mad Men garnered my attention... Too many favorites to mention... So little space...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A toothbrush
My wit
Indoor plumbing (although I have gone without it when I have gone camping albeit much to my discontent)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where do all those socks that get lost in the dryer go? Why do people like to wear thong underwear? (Sorry, to me, it feels like having a perpetual wedgie.) How do we create a better, more egalitarian world? Why do so many people confuse your and you're?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on my latest project, catching up with friends, unwinding by watching a DVD, or perfecting my fake British accent (nah, I only do that every other Friday).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oddly (or perhaps not so oddly) enough, I find early morning grocery shopping relaxing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
something resonates with you or you think I may be a intelligent, humorous, personable quality woman with substance and depth who may be interesting to get to know.

(While I can appreciate the application of the law of averages, please note that obvious "canned" messages are unlikely to get a response back. Please note that while I look much younger than my years I am generally not inclined to respond back to men under the age of 35.)