Right and left brainer (maybe a little more left brain than right brain – but just a little).
I’m a loyal friend, usually a good listener, am reasonably health conscious (although I do have my snack attacks and occasional chocolate cravings) and am pretty fit. I enjoy ethnic dining, live bands (ranging from pop, punk, alternative to jazz and more), bodybuilding, mid-century design, an occasional poetry slam, a good cup of tea, an occasional cup of "girlie" coffee (yes, the flavored ones men will not admit to wanting to try), museums, a pick up game of volleyball and a whole lot more.
What do I seek? World peace would be nice but I shall not digress. Integrity, intelligence, kindness and humor -- these are a few of my favorite things (to rewrite a lyric from the Sound of Music). A great smile, a handsome face, soulful eyes, nice lats, and firm glutes are nice to look at (c’mon let me be honest). However, I am more concerned with your values, goals, ambitions, and how you treat others.
I appreciate the unusual man who is authentic, who by nature would more admit his fears than try to cover them up. Moreover, I admire a man who has a sense of purpose in his life, who really thinks about and acts upon how he can improve his friendships and his community. I also find intelligence and a rapier wit very sexy...
Communication and the quality of it thereof is very important to me, so if your primary form of communication is text messaging then I'm not the person for you. (Not to be said that text messaging doesn't have its place for quick communication but I don't see it as a worthwhile form of quality conversation -- plus it irritates the hell out of me other than a quick update or thinking of you kind of thing).