smart, silly, and compassionate
My self-summary Propose an edit
I'm the dad who makes up stories for his daughter in the car on a
long drive, pokes fun at my own appearance in the morning (can you
say bed head?), and writes a special message everyday to my
co-workers and management that usually makes them laugh their butts
off. I'm bilingual (working on a third
language), a traveler (been to Spain, and Peru), and more spiritual than religious.
This means I believe in God, but I don't pretend to know all the
answers. I like reading, watching a good movie, a walk in the park,
a chance to photograph family or something
unusual in my day...and pushing the limits of polite conversation.
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
Working hard as a bilingual coverage adjuster for Asurion. The work
is repetitive and monotonous - nevertheless I'm grateful for the
job and the benefits. Hopefully my plans to return to college and
get the Master of Arts in Spanish from MTSU will come to fruition
by next fall.
I've visited my sweetie in Peru and I'm officially smitten.
Currently I'm working on improving her English at one of the
British language and cultural centers called Britanico so she would
have more confidence and require less direct interpretation and
translation on my part while in the USA. I plan on marrying next
year - God willing - and enjoying a life with one of the daughters
of the Sun.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
Writing, communicating, and taking a stand. I have been an advocate
and a teacher, so either giving someone else a piece of my mind or
teaching them what to do with theirs are equally appealing to me.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
My eyes, my ready grin, and my apparent similarity to Dr. House's
roomie...or so a lady of my acquaintance insists...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
Favorite Books: To Kill a Mockingbird, The Good Earth, This Much I
Know is True, Don Quijote, and many others.
Favorite Movies: V for Vendetta, Fargo, Mr. Roberts, Farewell My
Concubine, Grand Canyon, Dave...
Favorite Music: Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers, REM, Def Leppard,
Enya...I'm eclectic...oh, classical and vocal jazz is the
BEST!
Foods: Chicha Morada...Paella...Rabbit...Shepherd's Pie.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
My daughter. My
fiance. My
mind. My sense of humor. My
hope. My towel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
What's going to happen next? (if I have been making unreasoned
decisions) Comparative morality Indirect communication Adult vs
Child behavior What am I getting for lunch Why did I pick at that
when I knew it would hurt?? Where did I put that??
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
At family or friends... On-line... Spending my money on necessities
(?) Working until 9 or so PM reviewing claims and wondering (once
again) why I don't sell a kidney and see the world for 6 months...
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
I'm divorced for more than 8 years.
You should message me if Propose an edit
You are a glutton for punishment and in spite of my obvious and
sincere affection for my fiance in Peru, you are willing to settle
for a platonic relationship with someone who considers himself off
the market.
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My personality awards
Questions He Cares About View all
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- Would you avoid all contact with an ex if your current significant other asked you to?
- · Yes, of course!
- · No. This would be an unacceptable demand.
- · Only if their justification seems reasonable.
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- If you were in a serious relationship, would you mind if your significant other maintained an active profile on OkCupid?
- · Yes - I would mind this.
- · No - This would not bother me.
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- How frequently do you bathe or shower?
- · At least once a day.
- · Usually daily. I skip some.
- · A couple times a week.
- · Once a week or less.
