The scores on OKCupid work for finding compatibility, so they matter to me.
Most of my answers to OKCupid questions are marked private, but if you want to know my answers just ask me (and tell me yours).
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I've got more than a few sides to me. I tend to surprise people whose vision of me has me tucked neatly in a box or is derived solely from first experiences. So here I am literally describing myself in a few paragraphs…in a box. Hm.
In general I like to be active, playful, appreciative and to joke around. I do stop to smell the flowers…and point out their beauty. If you’re big into enjoying simple things, beauty in all things, and calm or amusing moments…and sharing that experience, then we’d have a lot going for us. If not then I’d want to spend an unspecified amount of time with others who are.
Being constantly active can be tiring. I do enjoy relaxation time to rest and recharge.
When the time calls for it I can be serious, contemplative and listen intently. Actually, I'm a pretty good listener. People tend to focus me, particularly people who need to say or share something important.
Sharing knowledge, perspectives and experiences is something I value. Do you appreciate art, literature, essays, and or architecture? Great, let's soak it up and talk about it.
Do you have political or philosophical opinions that you'd like to back up with facts or at least a good argument? Awesome, let's get into it.
Do you love being out and seeing beauty? Let's go.
Do you want a friend to listen and to bounce ideas off of? I'm there.
I have a habit of thinking of ways to make things better and to actually apply them. I like being creative and coming up with unusual solutions and improvements. My new habit is to introduce these hopefully-good-ideas without pushing them where they don't fit or aren't invited.
I'm a bit of an extrovert and an ethical hedonist.
I'm a fun and helpful person who wants to spend time with intelligent, good spirited people. What I'm not interested in is spending time with folks who tend to be selfish, cruel or insensitive. Most people have something to appreciate about them...I'm just looking for honesty and consideration to go along with it.
Three words to describe me:
intense, observant, and compassionate