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30 Cape Town, South Africa Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 22, 2014
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I Live life wild and calculatedly reckless.
I fall in Love with every amazing person i meet.
I'm utterly addicted to spontaneity and adventure.
I'm Very Polyamorous and probably would have been better suited as a hunter gatherer. But that doesn't mean I'm not looking for a More serious life partner. I am. They're just so hard to find when you're weird. I also like to let connections develope organically knowing that not every person is a soulmate-ish level of compatible, but that doesn't mean we can't positively effect each others lives.

So I'm searching. For what seems like everything.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've gone full nomad! It's been almost 3 years now traveling the planet, owning nothing but the stuff in my pack. So right now my days are full of ridiculousness, Meeting new people, couch surfing, going to festivals, cooking for people, spinning fire, working on farms, trying to get fluent at ukulele and piano. I flipping love to wander and am lucky enough to be retired and able to do so. Los Angeles, Berlin, Cape Town, start warming up your cuddles and cobblers cause you're next.
I’m really good at
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being modest.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I usually have some sort of food or beverage stain on my shirt. So. There is a good chance it's that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love fictions like stranger in a strangeland, or Rant. I also Love books that teach me things like cooking books or books that help me evaluate what it means to be human like sex at dawn or Ishmael. Also just read share or die and liked it. Just starting to read some Murakami.

I listen to different stuff for different occasions. For instance:

For poi spinning I like hip hop, dubstep, electro swing, beats antique type stuff.

For cooking it's the most varied, Sean hayes, cat empire, Henri salvador, cake, State radio, jimmy hendrix, Regina Spektor, ol Mumford. And James brown is the best kitchen music ever.

For relaxing in nature I like bowerbirds, radiohead, Ben Howard, cocorosie, iron and wine.

Food = everything. Well....I love everything, I was a chef for 6 years, but I don't eat meat anymore.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
alone time
ability to create art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
POSITIVE SHIT! complainers missed the memo about how to be happy.

people i like, burns i want to go to, workaway,wwoofing, helpx.

Love, sustainablilty, Destinations, orgasms, recipes ideas or plating techniques, the future, the Universe, all that good stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
basking in the fridayness of it all
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Most of the time (when it's warm) I wish I could be naked. It's not a exhibitionist thing, it's loving the feeling of sun on all of my skin thing.
You should message me if
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You like messaging.....or massaging