Now reading: Tampa by Alissa Nutting.
Next movie in queue: Revisiting Dexter 4th season (on Netflix).
First and foremost I'm looking for friendship. If we meet, get along and things work into something else, you won't hear me complaining about it ;) I've actually met several amazing people I first bumped into here on OkC and believe this site really works.
I am a bbw...and learning to accept that. My German heritage and the fact that I dearly love food makes it nearly impossible to be thin when I'm a stress eater and my life is total chaos on a more or less regular basis. My goal is to be more healthy. I'm a work in progress.
If you are extremely religious, please stop reading now, I don't need saving. I am also a strong supporter of gay marriage rights, if you have a problem with that, we won't get along. Everybody and I mean EVERYBODY deserves to have the same rights...to love without fear, to marry if that's what they want. I'm tired of narrow-minded, conservative bullshit.
Well, I've been married nearly 20 years and my mate is FredGarvin1969 here on OkC. He knows I'm here, he's good with me dating. I'm interested in polyamory and intimacy in an open relationship. Ethical non-monogamy seems to be hard concept for some to grasp and I understand that. It's not for everyone. It took me a long time to realize I'm just wired differently.
If I've come back to your profile several times, I find you interesting but because of the polything I seldom message first unless I can somehow deduce you're open to that. I enjoy looking at the questions people answer here on OkC...I think sometimes that's just as informative as a profile and the comments on the questions ARE pretty interesting!
I have a primal nature, I always have as far back as I can remember. For me, primal means close to the source, basic, primitive, instinctual. Nature recharges me when everyday reality kicks my ass. I feel best when I'm working or playing outside. I crave being around someone who's a bit animalistic and will physically challenge me. I enjoy rough-housing, back-scratching and playful banter. I often dream of being hunted...and it's not a nightmare.
I'm basically "person specific". I fall for a soul, not the package. If I like you as a person and find you attractive, the difference between XX and XY for me is pretty irrelevant. I consider myself demisexual. If you're not sure what that means and are curious, Google it. (It has nothing to do with Demi Moore). I'm looking for someone I might be able to consider a friend and activity partner more than a casual "play date".
I'm a tomboyish woman, (on the rare bad day it's like suffering from a split personality.) Hmmm...well, one thing I'll share is that I honestly for the most part absolutely HATE being treated "like a lady" because mentally a good part of me isn't one. I have an androgynous mind.