Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I AM NOW IN A RELATIONSHIP AND NOT SEEKING DATES.
I am very much into self-development. I want to be a better person.
My greatest motivation is that I want to have a great relationship.
I want to be able to attract the right girl, and I want to be able
to be a great partner.
I strive daily to think optimistically and to see possibilities
rather than impossibilities - which is easier said than done.
I have a sweet and loving cat named Emma.
My MBTI type, in case you care about such things, is INTJ. In the
DiSC profile I am mostly a C, and in the Enneagram I think I am a
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Among other things, I meditate every day and read lots of books
about self-development and spirituality. I am a highly skeptical
agnostic, but at the same time I am very interested in spiritual
I work in IT, which is good. In addition to that, I aspire to being
a composer and writer. I have written heavy metal, (fragments of)
musicals and orchestral music. I have a dream of being a composer.
It's not easy, because I've had something of a writer's block for a
couple of years now, but I am trying...
I sing and I play amateur theatre. Most of my social life is in
conjunction with this. At first glance I may look like an
extrovert, but I am actually strongly introverted and spent a lot
of my time reading (see "Favourite" section below) and exploring
music (again, see "Favourite" section).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a good singer - at least, I like to think I am.
My sister tells me that I am really good at changing and improving
myself. I tend to be harsh with myself, so I often find it
difficult to believe that she is right, but I want to believe
I think I am good a listening to people. In fact, I prefer to be
with someone who talks a lot. That way I don't have to worry about
"being interesting" and "having something to say" and can just
relax and listen, which is much easier for me.
I am good at my job. In periods where I am sad, it's often my job
that keeps me afloat, because it's something I know I am competent
One thing I can NOT do, though, is play hard to get. I know that
dating customs dictate that if I like you, I should play it cool
and act like I don't care. I don't do that. Well, sometimes I do
out of fear, but I try not to do it. And I suck at it anyway. If I
like you, I will probably show it. I need a girl who appreciates
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I speak Danish with an odd accent. I sound old-fashioned, like the
queen: "Gud bevare Danmark..." People often ask me if I am a
foreigner. I am not. I have no good reason for having an odd
accent. I think I developed it subconsciously because I am a
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am a great lover of fantasy fiction, science fiction and horror.
Anything speculative and otherworldly. :)
I love heavy metal, musical theatre and classical music. My dream
is to write music that combines all three genres. I'm working on
I like anime and Godzilla films.
As for food... I love cake and ice cream and the like, but recently
I've decided to cut back on sweets. My best friend suggested that
my diet might be contributing to the mood swings I have been
having, so I have switched to a paleo-like diet. So far it seems to
have worked. My mood and happiness have improved since I started
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be happy.
Whether or not I am doing the right thing with my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Occasionally I am at a party or with a friend, but most often I am
at home reading or trying to write something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a fairly serious depression in the summer/autumn of 2013.
That was hard, but it did inspire me to make some changes in my
life. I have changed my diet, boycotted pornography and begun
writing music again. Those things have helped. It has also helped
that I've gotten a cat and developed a new close friendship.
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