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61 M Bristol, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Gene, a Cancer (July 20), definitely NOT your typical guy. Vanilla is not my first choice of flavors.
I'm a strict Lacto, Ovo, Fuito, Nutso, Pisco, Porko, Beefo, Chico, Groucho, Harpo, Nemo - Meat-a-terian!
I am building an Energy Medicine Practice.
I'm Clean Shaven!
I have a casual appearance.
I'm not a busy/active freak!
I'm not a couch potato either.
I cry at the sad parts and I laugh at the funny parts.
I look very young for my age.
I am gentle at the right times and rough when its called for. I'm caring and understanding.
I am not afraid to say what I want.
I know how to treat a clear minded, Intelligent, fun, enthusiastic, grounded, independent woman.
Join me and let's find out what's in and what's out.
Let's begin our fun part of life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am building an Energy Medicine Practice.
Changing residents; I like renting.
Helping women and couples discover the Spiritual connection of Sacred Union.
Offering and teaching Sacred Sexuality Massage Techniques to women and couples.
As a trained and apprenticed Shamanic Healer and Shamanic Life Coach, I work at the level of the Original Wounding, removing it and therefore altering at the Energetic Level a clients DNA.
I do not have power or control of the session.
Spirit healer ... I am merely the conduit.
I have no power(s).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using the healing arts of the Wisdomkeepers, Earthkeepers, Mountain and Fire Shaman of the Q'ero peoples of Peru, the direct descendents of the Inka (Spanish spelling),
I heal at the DNA level, the original wounding.
Removing it completely so it no longer affects the individual or those innocents who were caught in the wake.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warm eyes and bright smile.
That I am grounded in truth, integrity and impeccability.
People feel safe when they are with me.
And usually, the special women come seeking more tactical, in depth Private sessions in tantric co-creation to awaken the self and deepen that connection. Couples may transform close to each other by learning, practicing and incorporating the many techniques of Sacred Sexuality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books ~ All of Alberto Villoldo's:
Shaman, Healer, Sage and more.
He is my Friend, Mentor, Teacher, Colleague, Shaman and world famous Author.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Many more than 6 and in no particular order except #1

My Mesa / Ritual & Ceremony
Family and Friends
Water & food
The enthusiasm of a loving partner.
JAZZ- Live!
Playing sweetly with each other from sunrise to sunset!
Vacationing with you at a Naturist Beach Resort
My Acrylics and Watercolors
100% Pure Palo Santo Essential Oil steamed distilled by the local Shaman.
Smudging with Palo Santo wood.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The subtle physical, emotional, spiritual and cultural effects we have upon each other, our ethnic, geographical, economical and generational mutual influences..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am holding sacred space, performing a Despacho Ceremony followed by a Fire Ceremony.
Or, a local Jazz Concert, Outdoor Festival or Club ~ without the liquor!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look much younger than I am... so please be as blessed!
Fair enough?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
"Is your definition of Soul Mate:
Your Best Friend and Lover?
Mine is!

No Salon Hair-Doo for her!
She keeps it changeable and exciting.
She enjoys her choices; make-up, clothes and her shoes reflect her mood and whimsy.
She is an independent Free Spirit who believes as I do in loyalty, communication and sharing openly.
She never allows regrettable words to fly recklessly.
She never goes to bed angry or upset and never refuses.

The following questions for you are either/or.

Take your time and answer from your life’s experiences.
It’s trickier than what you may have originally thought!

Visit all the implied meanings.

So, which are you?

Are you a traveler ... or a runaway?
Are you aware and enlightened ... or opinionated?
Are you busy/active ... or afraid to be alone with your thoughts?
Are you witty ... or insecure?
Are you passionate ... or obsessed?
Are you giving ... or people pleasing?
Are you disciplined and organized ... or a controlling clean freak?

No games, no endless emailing and calls.
Let's meet.
Then we can see if we want a real first date.

Let us take it from there, give "us" a chance.
Let us grow together for a bit.

Rome was not built in a day!
How can a life time be decided in one meeting?
Let's see where our path leads us ... give it some time.