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  • Ages 35–45
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Hispanic / Latin
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 5" (1.64m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I will talk a little bit about my approach to diet, workout, healing/medicine, spirituality, sex, books, music, likes/interests, dislikes, and dream; and hopefully this can give you some ideas about who and how I am.

I have a very healthy approach to what I eat. I am in a gluten and dairy free diet most of the time. I have super foods such as maca, goji and schizandra berries, reishi powder, cordyceps powder, lucuma powder, pine pollen, etc. Also bone broth and I have fermented foods like dairy kefir (only dairy product that I take daily) and sauerkraut. I just started with some teas (still a coffee lover) buckwheat tea and hibiscus tea (good stuff).

Now, on the other side, I love dining out and I like trying everything (avoiding dairy and gluten as much as I can :-) I love sushi, Indian, Thai, Chinese (specially Szechuan), Greek, Peruvian, Mediterranean, seafood, etc. and etc. I will go to the most exotic restaurant in town and I will try it for sure. As a side note, I used to live and work in the Amazon, and I tried a lot of different things there and among them I tried "suri" (you can Google it as "suri Amazonian"). So believe me, I will go and try mostly anything.

I practise Qi Gong and rebounding ( i have a beautiful mini trampoline in my apartment; and i am sorry but i do have to share the brand - Bellicon). I do the eventual 5 Rhythms or Core Conexion class and Laughter Yoga (not in a long time). I did some Yoga and some meditation before (yoga nidra and nada yoga); now, I am more into Qi Gong and jumping/rebounding and biking (road bike, single speed)

I also walk and do some hiking too. I would really like to get into kayaking for summer time.

If you notice, I tried to keep everything I do for workout low impact and the main reason for that is that after playing soccer and a racket ball game (fronton) for many years, I hurt one of my knees very badly so I have to keep it low impact.

Healing / Medicine
I have done a big journey on this field and I have tried a variety of approaches: Traditional, TCM, Energy, Natural, Homeopathic, Binaural beats, You name it. So far, my conclusion is that I am my own healer; and I find that what I eat, what I read, what I watch, what I listen to, what I choose for workout, what I smell, etc. Anything that my senses and my mind and my spirit can perceive and feels good or bad; all can make a huge impact in my health. So I have embarked in this amazing journey of making the right choices for keeping myself in good shape in all aspects of my life; and I am learning a lot more about myself. I am paying attention to myself.

I am practising transformational breathing (circular breathing).

Now, I still have my family Dr.; I have an amazing massage therapist; and a really good acupuncturist.

I have read a lot of books from Nietzsche to Josemaria Escriva and a lot in between. I have also attended a few churches. At the very end, I believe that I am an spiritual being just to call it something. One of the very few authors and probably the main one that I read is Anthony de Mello; and if you are curious about his writings, we can always talk about it. It will be nice to read his books with someone because in my opinion, they are meant to be a shared reading. Most of them are short stories from different religions and cultures and traditions, all assembled in a few books.

One story by Anthony de Mello:

A tale from Attar of Neishapur
The lover knocked of his Beloved’s door.
“Who knocks?” said the Beloved from within.
“It is I,” said the lover.
“Go away. This house will not hold you and me.”
The lover withdrew and pondered for years on the words the Beloved had said.
The he returned and knocked again.
“Who knocks?”
“It is you.”
The door was immediately opened.


I am actively studying and practising Tantra. And I am reading Sherri Winston and soon Jwala and Margo Anand. I just read my profile again and I realized that the "actively practising Tantra" can be misleading and confusing; this does not mean that I practise with any partner (nothing wrong with this; it is just that I am not doing it). First of all, my interpretation of Tantra is not sex specific; and also you can create a solo practice which of course is not as fun as with a partner but it helps me build up certain skills needed for the sex specific part of a tantric practice. Also the practise is about enjoying everything you do like having an orgasmic experience eating a chocolate, etc. Anyhow, there are many groups where to practise and i did visit with them but not my thing. I did one to one practices with a couple of Tantra instructors and it was very helpful for me. After that I do my own thing.


All titles by Anthony de Mello; I find his books stimulating and provoking and inspiring and challenging.

All four Nasrudin books by Idries Shah.

I am still exploring in this area. I am finding that what I am liking is instrumental music or in a language that I do not understand with uplifting or relaxing or fun beats. I am experimenting with some Kundalini music, African drums, Didgeridoo, etc.

Likes and Interests in any order
Travelling, dining, hiking, camping, contemporary dance, street art, Ballet, Mozart on the Mountains, Beethoven in the Badlands, some Opera, Farmers market, sorbet, coffee, tea, Dark chocolate, Beaches, lakes, rivers, mountains, rainforest, Kayaking, zip lines, networking, watching a comedy or a good movie in a couch with some organic popcorn and a Q ginger ale ;-), having a good wine / drink once in a while, and much more

Crowded places, noisy places


I don’t know how many plans you have made in your life; I have done many and for the most part or I am very misaligned with the plans that the universe has for me for this life time or I have no idea how to make plans haha. So now I decided to call this such plans only “dreams with a plan” ;) I will see if this works better. Will I be able to trick the universe? ;)

Anyhow, my “dream” is to move to a beautiful beach (maybe somewhere in the Caribbean where the happiest people in the world lives according to the Happy Index site) and start a business that could be but not limited to an Alternative Coffee Shop, a Bed and Breakfast with a Holistic approach, something related to a very specific type of tourism (not the typical), a small organic farm of a very specific product, or ALL in One big project; or? Any ideas? Are you interested? ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
De-learning - Re-learning - Enjoying - Living - Thinking - Working - Being human - Sharing - Selling - Coaching - Networking
I’m really good at
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Sharing knowledge, experiences and providing support. Even with food, I love Chinese and Indian food, and Sushi mostly for the sharing experience and the opportunity to try what others like along with my likes. On another angle, I created a group in and we meet once a month to network among the Spanish speaking professional community in Calgary.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: I like trying all sort of foods

Books by Anthony de Mello; and Nasrudin by Idries Shah

Movies: Comedies and Cartoons (really like them)

For TV, all I am watching these days is Get Smart; I dream of Jeannie; Oscar's Oasis.

Music: throat singers (Ay Kherel, Alash Ensemble); Kundalini (not sure if this is the right name but it makes sense to me ;) : Snatam Kaur, Deva Premal, Super Karma, Reema Datta, Wah!; just discovered some amazing Hawaiian like Hapa, Willie K, Hawaiian Style Band and Keola Beamer. African: Kaoudin Cissoko, Madou Djembe; Boka Marimba (Portland, OR)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try not to spend too much time thinking about stuff but I can't help it then I spend a lot of time thinking about how not to spend too much time thinking about stuff and how to spend more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies, it depends on what is happening in town, my mood and how fresh or tired I am. I can be at home, or out dining, or ballet, or an art event like contemporary dance or street art, a pub with some jazz or world music, etc. I would love to find a partner with whom we could be heading to a cabin in the mountains or elsewhere.
You should message me if
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you are capable of playing like a kid.

you are a passionate kisser.

You have read enough to understand that you have your own stories to tell; i would love to spend time listening to your stories and telling mines to you. I want to listen to your ideas, your creative mind, your dreams, your fantasies, your feelings, etc. If you are an avid reader, we are not a match. (or Google: "de mello how to pray") (or Google: "de mello how to be real") (or Google: "de mello how to love")