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45 F San Jose, CA

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  • Ages 18–99
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:05am
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(( NOTE: I don't necessarily rate profiles based on interest; I mayrate them on how much I enjoyed reading them. If I rated your profile 4 or 5 stars, nicely done - you likely got me to laugh aloud or smile broadly. I rate profiles as 1 star if someone says their "everyday me" is an internet photo of Noah Mills or some other actor or model, or similar nonsense. A fake deserves my low rating. ))

Removing most of this profile at the moment. I oddly me, and made this profile to do quizzes and answer questions, never to seek dates. I've made and talked to friends, and each is appreciated. I try to respond to most people, but may be irregular about when I check in.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started down one path, only to come to an apparent dead end, so mostly just getting along with living at the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... learning new software as well as testing and crashing it
... reading
... writing - not published, except one short story, but someday!
... using lots and lots of words to express things in multiple ways (pleonastic!)
... being incredibly evasive when someone gets too flirty and personal.
... looking up things on the internet to get answers.
... laughing at the absurdities in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair, my eyes, my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
It's so hard to decide on favorites as they vary with my mood and in some cases the list would get too long and still leave out something I loved.

Books, for example, Anne McCaffery's Pern novels, Broken God, Deed of Paksennarion, Red Mars series by Ben Bova, Heinlein and Asimov, and so much more. I once dreamed of reading every book in my middle school library before realizing how many there really were.

Movies. I adore the jet scenes in Top Gun as well as the scenes about Goose's death. Fifth Element has just the right humor to tickle my whimsy. Stargate and the subsequent TV series (watched via Netflix). Yes, action/adventure is my top movie preference! Of this year's (2013) movies, my top two faves have been "Now You See Me", which was worth seeing twice, and White House Down, unexpectedly. Most others (I've seen a lot this year) weren't bad, but just didn't grip me the same way.

I don't watch TV at all, though I've been exposed to snippets of Big Bang Theory at the gym. I only owned a TV to play console games (SNES, PS, PS2, GC, etc.) Way back I did watch such things as Babylon 5 (awesome series) and Star Trek: TNG and DS9 and Farscape and Alias- though watching series via Netflix is far more enjoyable. Yes, I clearly have a genre preference.

Music. Energy, dance beat, positive lyrics, some pop. Vocal trance, freestyle, old school rap, techno, latin dance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stars (sun and others)
My mind
Sense of touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* ways to connect together things I'm reading and learning with other things that seem unrelated. Sometimes the littlest thing can be applied to something else to give a greater and richer understanding.
* everything. Overthinking it, in fact. Ask me a simple yes or no question, and odds are I'll spend the next 20 minutes coming up with the best way to answer, likely without a yes or a no.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
* at the gym after work, or walking on a trail, or ice-skating, or being lazy at home.
* having dinner and maybe a movie with one of my children and a friend.
* planning my weekend so I get everything done and have fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I was willing to admit it, it wouldn't be private. I will talk about all sorts of things, but I do have a privacy line I don't cross often.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* you don't chat like this "Where n CA r u?" and "Was you number?"
* you actually have a reason other than my picture to message me
* you actually are interested in friendly conversation and realize I mean "Friends Only" quite literally