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42 M San Mateo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:52pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Former Midwestern with enough sensibility to move away from the cold, serious only between the hours of 8-5, but never on weekends or holidays, gainfully employed, and have previously resided in MA, NC, Germany, and Japan. Also, while I live on the Peninsula as the schools are better down here, I do work in downtown SF and spend most of my free time in the City.

Athletic enough to compete a few Half Ironman’s and half marathons, but not crazy enough to attempt the full versions, witty, humorous, a tad sarcastic, sometimes speak before thinking things all the way through, but always the first to laugh at myself and comments.

I haven't figured everything out yet and probably never will but that is one of the great thing's about life and being open to new ideas and experiences, things are always changing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in what most would call a boring industry, banking, but working on some very cool (for banking) technology initiatives. Am very happy with my career and where and what I have achieved professionally. I have a great work/life balance which is most important to me right now. It allows me to spend time with friends, family, and my children as well as feel satisfied professionally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile and laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything historical and biographies I am a non fiction fan. Here is the list of the last couple of books it have read (about the only positive about BART)

Zealot, This Town Two Parties and A Funeral, Divergent, League of Denial, All Joy and No Fun, No Easy Day, 5 Days at Memorial, All Joy No Fun, Crazy Town The Rob Ford Story (thank you Canada for the crack smoking mayor, pure comedy gold)

Movies: Office Space, Braveheart, Usual Suspects, Silver Linings Playbook, Love Actually, Notting Hill, Kings Speech, Tommy Boy

Shows: Community, The Following, Parks & Rec. Orange is the New Black, Cosmos, The Daily Show, Brooklyn 99

RIP Breaking Bad

Music: Anything. Have every kind of music from U2, Coldplay Gypsy Kings to Techno. Am lyrically deaf so if it has a good beat I like it. And thank god for Shazam now I can track down songs that I hear.

Food: Anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My kids
2) Friends
3) Sense of humor
4) The Daily Show
5) Vacations
6) Netflix
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What kind of contestant I would be on the Amazing Race.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually recovering from the week and thinking of what to do the rest of the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was once detained along with a friend by the German police for a 2 am drunken bike ride around a picturesque town square. The issue was not so much that we were drunk, was more that there were not our bikes. I like to refer to the incident as Operation Freedom Ride. It was a short lived liberation of said bicycles.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a relationship and want to take the time to get to know someone. You understand that life has it's ups and downs and find that the best relationships are the ones where you give and receive support during the down times and take pleasure in experiencing the ups with someone.